Guy's fantasies - threesome's. Girl's opinion's welcome!!
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littlemissm - yes you are right, relationships do involve compromise, but i think what my boyfriend suggest is taking the pi$$. Im pretty much up for anything else, but when it comes to physically involving anyone else, then no i cant do it.
Why cant some men be happy with what their girlfriend offers and I pretty much do everything most guys would love apart from that!! Pft! lol
Why cant some men be happy with what their girlfriend offers and I pretty much do everything most guys would love apart from that!! Pft! lol
Original post by ScouseEmma28
Cringe, would you (if you're in a relationship) want your girlfriend to do it, and if she didnt, would you feel you were 'missing out' in your life?....
For men its EASY to seperate love from sex. Yes of course they'll still adore their girlfriends and have sex with them, but it's like having his cake and eating it. Yet its not so easy for men to agree to their girlfriends having sex with another guy whilst they watch is it? Hmmm, double standards...
For men its EASY to seperate love from sex. Yes of course they'll still adore their girlfriends and have sex with them, but it's like having his cake and eating it. Yet its not so easy for men to agree to their girlfriends having sex with another guy whilst they watch is it? Hmmm, double standards...
its for fukbuddys / random encounters not for any meaningful proper relationship! unless ure just horned up weirdos!
Do you have a sister?
aarora - no i wouldn't, lol. Because i'd get jealous of him perving at her. I dont mind him perving at porn with me, but in a physical context, its just crossing that boundary when it comes to a relationship. Like, none of his other girlfriends had watched lesbian porn whilst he has sex with them, yet i give it ago, enjoyed it, and he was made up!! But its like it's not good enough, ffs. lol
ha - no i dont have a sister.lol
I'd do it for the lulz with another couple.
But not in a relationship, too much jealousy. Also- I'm bi, so if my boyfriend knew, it would be basically like having another 'guy' in bed with us. I'd find the girl just as desirable as him, and not just in a Katy Perry trysexual way.
But not in a relationship, too much jealousy. Also- I'm bi, so if my boyfriend knew, it would be basically like having another 'guy' in bed with us. I'd find the girl just as desirable as him, and not just in a Katy Perry trysexual way.
Original post by lechaton-x
I'd do it for the lulz with another couple.
But not in a relationship, too much jealousy. Also- I'm bi, so if my boyfriend knew, it would be basically like having another 'guy' in bed with us. I'd find the girl just as desirable as him, and not just in a Katy Perry trysexual way.
But not in a relationship, too much jealousy. Also- I'm bi, so if my boyfriend knew, it would be basically like having another 'guy' in bed with us. I'd find the girl just as desirable as him, and not just in a Katy Perry trysexual way.
does your boyfriend (in your situation being bi) find that you're in a perfect position to do that then? I only ask because my boyfriend said that there are guys who date bi girls who are usually up for it.....
It really bothers me to the point i dont know whether I can be with someone who might resent me for not fulfilling one of his fantasies in his life.
Also, what does it say about my boyfriend then about his feelings towards me. I know he's not at that stage where he's ready to say i love you (after 4 months),despite consistently telling me how he feels about me. His two serious ex-girlfriends never did it, even though he asked them and he went as far as to tell me something but i told him to 'stop there' because i dont think i'd like what i'd hear, so he didnt tell me. He said his ex girlfriend '' didnt want to do it, but there was a situation at the time..." and i told him to not carry on because i dont think i'd like what id hear. He said he's never cheated and wouldn't ever do that, but im curious now what he was going to tell me.....
No matter how comfortable I feel around my boyfriend or how much I love him or how much I trust him, I could never share him with someone else, even if its just the one off.
My boyfriend has had a threesome in the past and he asked me about my view on it a while back but before I could answer he said "actually don't answer that, its beneath you and I'm not comfortable with picturing you with any other guy but me". For me, that says it all. Our relationship is between me and him, we are in love with each other so the thought of another person being physically involved with us is sickening for me.
Whatever you do or don't do, make sure it is your decision and that you are comfortable with it. If he can't respect your decision then he's being unreasonable and you don't need to stand for that.
My boyfriend has had a threesome in the past and he asked me about my view on it a while back but before I could answer he said "actually don't answer that, its beneath you and I'm not comfortable with picturing you with any other guy but me". For me, that says it all. Our relationship is between me and him, we are in love with each other so the thought of another person being physically involved with us is sickening for me.
Whatever you do or don't do, make sure it is your decision and that you are comfortable with it. If he can't respect your decision then he's being unreasonable and you don't need to stand for that.
Original post by ScouseEmma28
does your boyfriend (in your situation being bi) find that you're in a perfect position to do that then? I only ask because my boyfriend said that there are guys who date bi girls who are usually up for it.....
It really bothers me to the point i dont know whether I can be with someone who might resent me for not fulfilling one of his fantasies in his life.
It really bothers me to the point i dont know whether I can be with someone who might resent me for not fulfilling one of his fantasies in his life.
It was a hypothetical boyfriend
but I certainly wouldn't date a guy if his reasons for doing so were because I was 'up for it'. He'd be a bit of a moron if he's happy with me getting with a girl, but would go mental if a guy was involved
Look, if you don't want to do it- don't do it. Contrary to popular belief (oh! it's just a male fantasy!), if he REALLY loves you...he won't resent you for saying no.
My girlfriend was didn't mind obliging my threesome fantasy, and I love her all the more for it. To be honest it didn't take that long to find someone to take us up on the offer. I mean, it's just once, and you have to be open to new experiences in life. Life is too short.
I think some girls won't like the idea because they're insecure about themselves, but in a proper committed loving relationship it's not an issue. I guess we can't all have decent girlfriends.
I think some girls won't like the idea because they're insecure about themselves, but in a proper committed loving relationship it's not an issue. I guess we can't all have decent girlfriends.
love means respect. if he does not respect what you don´t want to do, you will have a problem.
I would have no problem with a threesome as long as I could choose the other guy or girl. And I would set limits. I would never allow that he penetrates her for example. everything else goes.
I would have no problem with a threesome as long as I could choose the other guy or girl. And I would set limits. I would never allow that he penetrates her for example. everything else goes.
Original post by Cynthi007
love means respect. if he does not respect what you don´t want to do, you will have a problem.
I would have no problem with a threesome as long as I could choose the other guy or girl. And I would set limits. I would never allow that he penetrates her for example. everything else goes.
I would have no problem with a threesome as long as I could choose the other guy or girl. And I would set limits. I would never allow that he penetrates her for example. everything else goes.
The common one is that you're not allowed to come in her, but penetration is fine
Don't knock it until you've tried it.
That is all.
That is all.
im still busy fantasising over a twosome
He can't make you do something you don't want to do, and there's a difference between watching lesbian porn and actually carrying out those acts yourself. If he respects you he won't force you into anything or resent you if you do refuse, and if you don't feel you can entirely trust him or feel secure in yourself, you won't be comfortable doing this and shouldn't go through with it.
But if you don't try, you won't know. And you only live once, but it is wholly your decision to make on your own.
If you do decide to do it, you can set limits and rules, and say to him you'll choose the other girl - and then choose someone who's not as hot as you :P haha
In my honest opinion, this is something you do when single for fun, not in a relationship, especially if a serious one. Unless both partners are horny weirdo's :P
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But if you don't try, you won't know. And you only live once, but it is wholly your decision to make on your own.
If you do decide to do it, you can set limits and rules, and say to him you'll choose the other girl - and then choose someone who's not as hot as you :P haha
In my honest opinion, this is something you do when single for fun, not in a relationship, especially if a serious one. Unless both partners are horny weirdo's :P
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I have done it - not with someone I'm in a relationship with.
I'm going to give a little tough love - he is saying he wants to do it with someone he cares about, because it makes him sound more sympathetic and it makes you more likely to say yes. He says he is determined to do it once in his life because he knows you watch lesbian porn, and he wants you to feel that if you don't do it with him, he'll look for it somewhere else / later on. Bottom line he just wants to do it to act out a fantasy (and brag about it), and he should not make arguments about this when you clearly have shown doubts. A threesome with two women doesn't provide any additional sexual pleasure, a woman is only a woman, you cannot 'double the dose', no matter how much you try - it is simply an ego boost. Meaning it is something done for him, there is nothing in it for you. If you are bi-curious, the best way to explore that is alone, with another woman (obviously not now that you are in a relationship).
Sure some people like it and have a nice time. I did it once and am completely 'meh' about it - I didn't care about the guy, I was younger, it was something I could try, but I'd much rather be with a girl alone to explore that.
I'm going to give a little tough love - he is saying he wants to do it with someone he cares about, because it makes him sound more sympathetic and it makes you more likely to say yes. He says he is determined to do it once in his life because he knows you watch lesbian porn, and he wants you to feel that if you don't do it with him, he'll look for it somewhere else / later on. Bottom line he just wants to do it to act out a fantasy (and brag about it), and he should not make arguments about this when you clearly have shown doubts. A threesome with two women doesn't provide any additional sexual pleasure, a woman is only a woman, you cannot 'double the dose', no matter how much you try - it is simply an ego boost. Meaning it is something done for him, there is nothing in it for you. If you are bi-curious, the best way to explore that is alone, with another woman (obviously not now that you are in a relationship).
Sure some people like it and have a nice time. I did it once and am completely 'meh' about it - I didn't care about the guy, I was younger, it was something I could try, but I'd much rather be with a girl alone to explore that.
Original post by ScouseEmma28
does your boyfriend (in your situation being bi) find that you're in a perfect position to do that then? I only ask because my boyfriend said that there are guys who date bi girls who are usually up for it.....
It really bothers me to the point i dont know whether I can be with someone who might resent me for not fulfilling one of his fantasies in his life.
It really bothers me to the point i dont know whether I can be with someone who might resent me for not fulfilling one of his fantasies in his life.
From the tone of your posts it's clear that you're not comfortable with the idea and pm the simple answer is that you shouldn't do it.
My fiance and I have had several threesomes with a few different girls but this is something we both want and we're both comfortable doing. I was never put under any pressure to do it (in fact it was my idea) but if I had been and it wasn't something I wanted to do I'd have had no hesitation in telling the bf to forget it. If he'd resented me for it, I think it would've been pretty clear what he was in the relationship for.
I'm quite amazed that just because you enjoy watching lesbian porn your fella thinks you'd be happy to have sex with another woman.
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