Well, today I was conclusively told that I had early onset bipolar disorder!
(Sorry for writing too much!)
I've always been hyperthymic - a personality type characterised by being energetic, gregarious and optimistic - although how much of that bled into hypomania is anyone's guess. In middle school, I was strange and had some inappropriate reactions - but generally happy. However, in high school, I started to get more severe mood changes - and accompanying cognitive deficits. I started to self-harm in the moderate depressive episodes (which included suicidal thoughts and gestures, but no actual attempts), fortunately high school was a breeze, so when I wasn't doing so well I could get away with coasting. I also had periods of hypomania - noticeable euphoria where I would run around kissing my friends. Brilliant! I would also be very productive - looking back, there were clear periods of not doing work, followed by bursts of getting all my coursework done. So, in high school - it wasn't too bad, but I started to realise something was up. Of course it was only with the depression and self-harm in mind - who thinks that feeling amazing could be a symptom?
I entered college alright, until the following February, when I started slipping into very severe bout of depression. This ****ed me up, in all honesty. Again, the self-harm came into my life again. I couldn't concentrate. I couldn't read. The following months are a blur. It included days (one at a time) which I had switched into manic symptoms - sometimes with, sometimes without the depressive symptoms. These only caused trouble - theft, getting very drunk, bizarre behaviour (running onto roundabouts for example). But understand, these were rare days amongst the debilitating depression - which did lead to attempted suicide (fortunately I was found before I did too much damage).
At the beginning of this period, I lost the group of friends I had at that time. I was disliked by one girl, which caused me to isolate myself from them. Fortunately my boyfriend stood by me and cared for me (without this care, I'm sure I would have done a lot more damage to myself, more severe self-harm, more fatal suicide).
Being put on anti-depressants did nothing.
I also experienced mild hallucinations.
After attempting suicide I managed to get referred to CAMHS - where I was assessed and promptly referred to a registrar psychiatrist who put me on Quetiapine. Quetiapine is an antipsychotic, but is also used to treat the moods of bipolar disorder, and it honestly helped, mostly with impulsivity really. However, it made me very drowsy, so I resisted an increased dose. I feel that it has pushed me further down than I would ideally like - due to the fact sleep and mood are very tightly linked in bipolar disorder and it made me sleep a lot.
Fortunately, after that episode dissapated, I still had a couple of weeks before my summer exams and I was able to teach myself enough to get me 3 As - as well as a D in my psychology paper, because I had to pick my battles. I resat that one, and got an A.
Somewhere along the way, I developed some form of social anxiety (as well as general anxiety), however the hope is with the correct treatment for my mood, I will get better in this respect. But this has affected my life a lot - I messed up my university panel interviews and I'm terrified of going to practice martial arts every week (because I don't want to cock up in front of all those people).
More recently, my moods have been, well, rapid cycling really - which has detracted from my ability to work for a couple of months. This is problematic because lots of things just get all jumbled up and I can't do very much about it! The worst thing has really been negative intrusive thoughts and the compulsion to self-harm. Fortunately, it just missed my exam period!
Today, the dose of quetiapine has been upped, so I anticipate increased drowsiness, but a mood-stabiliser has been added, so maybe they'll balance each other out? I don't know, but the side-effects will certainly affect my life.
Mental illness has also affected me from the aspect of my mother - who suffers from bipolar II and BPD (traits of which I see littered all over this thread).
This has been difficult, because I have been forced to tiptoe across eggshells. Not through fear of seeing a rage, but because I am so scared of upsetting her. I have come home to blood. I have had to ensure that she eats. I have spent time with her bed-ridden. I have answered the phone to her on admission to hospital. I have answered the phone to her suicidal and drunk. Fortunately, these things have only gotten very severe over the last 3 years - I was mature enough to deal with it.
But through all these things, both in my head and in my home, I have developed a deep sense of empathy and it has pushed me through to my ambition of Medicine.
And I'm really glad I got an early diagnosis - makes dealing with uni much easier, I'm sure.
One question: would you rather be treated by a completely mentally sound Psychiatrist, or one that has experienced mental illness (but is in remission, of course)?