Girls and Guys: Are you getting enough sex in your life at the moment?

You're not my type.

its different for gay people. because only 1 in 10 men (or something like that) are gay, even less women are gay and you cant always tell if someone is gay, of course the gay population are going to be more sexually frustrated. that goes without saying.

How could you possibly know that?

I'm gay and you seem to be male.

Yes. But you didn't state that you were only asking straight people. So I answered.

A lot of girls are, I know loads of girls with really high sex drives. It's just if we talk about it and act on it, we're 'slags', whilst if guys do it they're 'legends' and 'lads'. So it's not that girls aren't horny it's that most won't admit it because they're scared of being portrayed negatively.

Not all guys do, you have to keep it interesting. Obviously if your sexlife consists of a roll-on-roll-off missionary once a week then yeah he'll get bored. So will she. Seriously, all this depends on the people involved, you can't generalise everyone by gender.

I see how that could be problematic.

I can be anything you want me to be, baby

i get the feeling that the majority of guys (unless they are with a long term girlfriend and have gotten bored of her but she wants sex more and more because thats what girls are like) dont get enough sex in their life. you can usually see guys trying to impress girls (even if they dont want to admit it) in lots of different ways and you get a lot of them pumping with unhealthily large amounts of testosterone because they get so little/no sex.

i get the feeling girls get a lot of sex. if they dont, its because they are with a long term boyfriend who has gotten bored of them sexually and wants a different girl, or they have ultra high standards which means they never get to have sex because they turn down pretty much every guy constantly.

thats definitely the situation with my friends. the girls are getting enough sex (even too much sex), the guys are getting nothing, and the odd guy we know who has a long term girlfriend, we get the impression he's bored of the sex with the same person after more than a year.

poll included.

Except subtle?

I'm a girl and voted I don't get enough, despite being in a long-term relationship... so now I'm feeling paranoid that it's because he wants someone else We are in an LDR though so opportunity is more limited.

Subtlety is not my forte, however I'd be willing to give it a try

I'm not sure you and me will ever work. Maybe you should find someone who won't scream in horror at the thought of your special sausage?

Ok Au revoir mon amour...