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I think I've gone from being bullied to a bully........?

So when I was at school, I got bullied pretty badly bth mentally and physically and betrayed by several people. I couldn't understand as all I ever was, was nice and respectful to people. I was also small and defenceless and just had to suck it up.

However, now Im 6"2 and have gt considerably bigger, I just try to physically intimidate a lot of men and try to assert my dominance over them and I will just get angry for no reason. If anyone says the slightest thing, even banter, I just immediately retaliate and don't take any ****. Also, if I play someone at sport, I dont just want to beat them, I want to humiliate them! I don't like who I've become but I always have that little kid in the back of my mind from school and how Im determined not to let that happen again. Do you reckon I need counselling or something

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Don't do it, otherwise I'll have to pay for your prison sentence.
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Cicerao
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There are plenty of people who were bullied who managed to remain nice people, so stop making excuses and being a dick.
You nasty git.
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Rzc
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Original post by Cicerao
There are plenty of people who were bullied who managed to remain nice people, so stop making excuses and being a dick.


lol this ^
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Original post by Cicerao
There are plenty of people who were bullied who managed to remain nice people, so stop making excuses and being a dick.


Obv you havent been bullied then yu ignorant bitch
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508836
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Errrrrr.. you need to man the **** down.
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Kreuzuerk
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cam down cam down
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Cicerao
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Original post by Anonymous
Obv you havent been bullied then yu ignorant bitch


I actually was.

Have a nice day.
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508836
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Original post by Anonymous
Obv you havent been bullied then yu ignorant bitch


Ohhh now you're cyber bullying?
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Boo!xx
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It happens
In the morning say to yourself 'today I will have a kind heart towards others'
Other something along those lines. Dont make anyone else go through what you went through as a kid.
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elstevens
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Obv you havent been bullied then yu ignorant bitch


I was bullied and I have never, nor would I ever, bully other people. Why is she ignorant for pointing out that not everyone feels the need to carry on the bullying? It's not a rule that we have to bully others if we've been bullied ourselves.
(edited 13 years ago)
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Keckers
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So you're using the fact you were bullied as an excuse for being a dick?

Nice one.
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lisa_87
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you're overcompensating.

just chill out, focus on yourself.
I used to be like this before i realised what a **** i was.
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Original post by Anonymous
So when I was at school, I got bullied pretty badly bth mentally and physically and betrayed by several people. I couldn't understand as all I ever was, was nice and respectful to people. I was also small and defenceless and just had to suck it up.

However, now Im 6"2 and have gt considerably bigger, I just try to physically intimidate a lot of men and try to assert my dominance over them and I will just get angry for no reason. If anyone says the slightest thing, even banter, I just immediately retaliate and don't take any ****. Also, if I play someone at sport, I dont just want to beat them, I want to humiliate them! I don't like who I've become but I always have that little kid in the back of my mind from school and how Im determined not to let that happen again. Do you reckon I need counselling or something


Good for you! I can't stop being bullied :/
Ring childline.
You need to let go. Most people were bullied as a kid - I certainly was. It means you don't take any sh*t yes, but not to the point where you become the bully yourself. That makes you no better than them.
mm
(edited 13 years ago)

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