Girls who try so hard to be a lad. Why?

Who says dude anyway, female, male or otherwise? uck.

I say dude and man all the time. If this puts a guy off, he's not the kind of guy I give a flying **** about getting to know anyway, so it works out.

Seriously, are you living in the Victorian era? Does my vernacular offend you?
Then I shall of course immediately start wearing all pink and talk like the dizzy tarts on my facebook: "oh hey darlin u lukin gd bbz xxx"

I don't call girls babe. I call them beautiful if that is what I think of them.

You're the one generalising her. I never said women had to wear certain clothes or anything. Women can wear whatever they want, they can talk about what ever they want, what im talking about is addressing someone in an appropriate manner. Mannerisms in this country have gone down the pan.

Its just women cant still show authority and still be a woman without using such words, believe me. If im in a bar or a club, I'll instantly start speaking to women who drink out of wine glasses, cocktail glasses, vodka glasses who show a bit more class than just succumbing to the chavette norm that society wants!

I WANT A REAL WOMAN WHO SHOWS HER WOMANLY WAYS! GOD PUT A WOMAN ON THE EARTH TO ACT LIKE A WOMAN SO MEN WOULD BE ATTRACTED TO HER WOMANLY WAYS AND WANT TO GET UP ON IT!

that is all!

omg true, didnt even notice

Fair enough, but rarely outside of certain areas in London does anyone actually say 'brah'. TSR isn't a good place if you're looking for real English slang...

^ thats chav talk which is just as much of a turn off as being a ladette is.

Also, no I dont live in the Victorian Era and I understand equality and that women should be free to do what they want, however, i just find it unattractive, just as many women think men who show their emotional side are unattractive.

So, its okay for women to dislike men who show their feminine side but its not okay for men to dislike women who show their masculine side? hypocritical!

I didn't think 'brah' was used a lot over there. Haha, I was writing it using slang from over here

Hypocrite ****er noob OP hahaha...

I don't actually know any girls who talk like that (and I know exactly three guys who still say "dude"...), except ironically. I'd probably find it a bit odd, but it wouldn't be a big issue unless it was REALLY overdone/ grating.

Basically, I've only heard it on TSR and from some of my... posher friends.

Whereabouts in America are you? East coast, West Coast, neither coast?

where'd my post go, think i deleted it while editing nvm

lots of guys say 'dude' to me
think im guna fuss next time and be like say 'dudette' or something

But a lot of women like me decide that they like having pints of beer not because they want to appear manly, but because they like the taste of beer. I don't see why we should comply with what you say 'makes' a woman just to attract men as we have our own tastes and preferences.

A real woman isnt just someone who acts stereotypically submissive and saccharine for men's benefits. You make it sound like we exist to serve you:

"GOD PUT A WOMAN ON THE EARTH TO ACT LIKE A WOMAN SO MEN WOULD BE ATTRACTED TO HER WOMANLY WAYS AND WANT TO GET UP ON IT!

You need to get with the 21st century, man!

For the record, I find it sweet and endearing for men to be sensitive and emotional because it means i'm more likely to be able to bond with and understand them. I have no problem with men with traditionally stereotypical feminine traits.