My college is very mixed, mostly white but alot of black people and asians also.
I had never got into much contact wth indian girls before, however, naturally I have become friends with a few British Indians.
Im not sure if this is
just a prticular fetish im developing, but when I was looking round my form the other day, i realised that I was attracted to 4 girls, and three of them were Indian.
this worries me about dating white guys as ive had alot of tehm say brown skin is a turn on. i want to be appreciated for me, not adifferent colour toy for a dude.Like I said, I had never had the chance to know Indian girls before, so never had an Indian girl in my life that i fancied.
It's as i've discovered women all over again.
The only problem is, all the indian girls in college seem to only be going out with other asian boys.
There is one girl in particular, her name is Ria, and she's amazing,,,Not just the way she looks, but the way she carries herself, and her views and how she always tells me about looking after her family etc. Im not sure what it is, but I really feel great amount of warmth and class from her. Very different feelings i've had in the past when i've had a crush....
Thing is, most of the time, I'd think a girl this stunning was waaaay out of my league, but we get on REALLY REALLY well....
It sounds silly, but im not sure how she would react being asked out by a white boy?
same as any other girl - she would be flattered and wouldnt be nasty seeing as you are friendsIm not racist, but I am also concerned about how the other Indian lads in my college would react?
when i have been walking down a street with a white dude often traditional indians in saris, old indians and those wearing muslim coverings gove me filthy looks and stare nastily. not so much in big multi ethnic cities, more in small towns. there seems to be assumption that if you are dating a white dude you must be a sl*t and living with./sleeping with him unmarried (many indian in the old era disapprove of this)I ask this, because I have one indian guy friend (whom i met in college also) and he told me that I might get a bit of stick? This has made me a tad paranoid....
TL;DR - Really like this Indian girl, will she laugh at the fact that im just a skinny white boy, if I ask her out?
not at all! i kind of like my driving instructor, have never had a white bf for cultural reasons (im catholic therefore dont believ in cohabitation or premarital sex, nor drinking and am veggie) he is skinny and white but very cute. regardless of race we are all people. if you can hack the culture difference go for it.Will other Indian lads in my college think less of me for dating "one of their girls"?
why would they - only jealousy if they fancy her too. her brothers or father might kill you thoughI really want to bute the bullet, but im also aware that I have yet to see an asian girl with a white dude at my college, it makes me nervous!