Am i going to put girls off by not wanting to have sex until mid-relationship?

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Reply 20

boba

some will some wont

Reply 21

sil3nt_cha0s

You would with me :sadnod:

Reply 22

Anonymous #1

Original post by Arnotts

I would love it! But I find it quite strange that you would do other things but just not the actual act of sex. To me they're just as intimate as the other so I'd prefer a guy who would hold off both.

Perhaps i explained badly. I would be happier to do other things if the girl really wanted something from me to 'keep her occupied' until the main event, so to speak.

Naturally being a person who wants to wait a bit, i'd be more than happy to wait in return too :smile:

Reply 23

spocckka

I've been in a relationship for over two years and we haven't had sex, nor do we plan to. It's just not something we especially want to do. It's just an activity after all. Relationships don't need to be sexual to survive.

Reply 24

Steezy

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9iSlPoQm2XY

Reply 25

SophiaKeuning

Original post by Anonymous

I get the impression on here that at uni it seems to go: Sex followed by possible relationship.

In my past relationship, we did not have sex until 7 months into the relationship.

Am i going to put girls off me by not wanting to simply offer it up on a plate as soon as some attraction is there? :rolleyes:

No, silly. Not at all.

Reply 26

MagicNMedicine

Original post by HARRY PUTAH

American college girls are all up for no sex? Wow that is new news....In DIsney World maybe.

No they aren't all, most of them are going to be up for it. But because religion plays a higher part in US society, you will get a higher proportion of girls who are into things like "no sex before marriage" or at least "saving it for someone special" than you get here.

Reply 27

Tommyjw

Original post by spocckka

It's been proven that an active sex life improves relationship.
Literally been proven,

Never understand people like you.
Sex is something intimate with my girlfriend, something that afterwards leads to us feeling that 'feeling of closeness' when we are cuddling after.

Kissing is just an activity, so is hugging.
Do you do either of them? i bet you do
Sex is as good for a relationship as either of them.

Reply 28

spocckka

Original post by Tommyjw

I was well aware of that. Obviously humans are designed to want sex.

Reply 29

alharrison4

Personally I'd find 7 months a bit excessive, but I do agree it's better when the order goes relationship -> sex, rather than the other way round.

Reply 30

Rachel08

Original post by Anonymous

No, it shows you actually care about other people :smile:

Reply 31

sarahthegemini

Some girls will be put off, some girls won't.

Reply 32

sheep_go_baa

You'll live :smile:

Original post by Steezy

And this is hilarious lool

Reply 33

vn2009

Original post by Holamigo

Not at all. but you have to make sure the girl you're with understands it from beginning as if they don't know they may think you're not interested which is when it can cause problems.

Nothing to do with ur post, but just wanted to comment on your sig....

man i miss lost! :frown:

Reply 34

Evangelica

No, I'd much prefer that in a guy. Fun's fun, but if you're looking for a proper relationship then give that a chance first I think.

Reply 35

U.S Lecce

I'm curious to know why?

Reply 36

SpiritedAway

It depends on the girl. Being totally honest though, you'd have to be an amazing guy for me to wait 7 months. I'd actually start to feel like I was the problem by then, and for me personally, it wouldn't work. But I am not the entire female population :p:

Reply 37

HARRY PUTAH

Original post by MagicNMedicine

yawn.

Times are changing and this stupid new aged bull**** about saving da virginitiez for mr special is as strong as dust in a hurricane. Mose of these 'saving myself' guys and girls are uptight and generally lose it in secret.

Religion only plays a bigger role as you may see it because Americans spout such bull**** more than we do over here. I know the red states have strong religious views but that changes when college life is round the corner or these girls/guys go elsewhere away from the familiar neighbourhoods.