Showed myself on webcam

It's odd, but I do have some sympathy for the guy. He's obviously very strange and lonely and thus got incredibly attached to you. If you look at it from his perspective, it must be difficult when you just cut him out of your life when he's "known" you for so long. The offline messages are creepy however.

You shouldn't have stripped or "played along", not because it's disgusting but because it was encouraging him. However, blocking him was ultimately the right move for both of you.

When I was depressed and lonely, I used to talk to a guy online. We spoke for about a year, and after a few months we skyped. He was 21 and never even kissed a girl....he was lonely and I guess talking to me made him feel that he almost had a girlfriend- he even took off his "single" status on facebook. I wasn't actually his girlfriend obviously, he was just someone to talk to. Plus he lives in USA.

He always asked me on cam to take my clothes which I'd refuse to do , and make movements that I could tell he was w******. He'd try and have cyber sex but I just thought it was so stupid....he'd say things like "kisses you hard" and then obviously more explicit stuff. When I was bored I played along. I said no alot, but he didn't give up, so I showed him my boobs one day....I know it was stupid and I feel so gross about it now. He was always on at me to "spread my legs" and show him, but thankfully I never did that.

When I got a boyfriend, he wanted me to delete this guy from facebook and msn, and I had no problem with that. But when I logged on to an old msn, he wasn't blocked on there, I got loads of offline messages.....he says "I miss the sex and your boobies" and that he loves me, which I find creepy.

Is this weird? Am I completely disgusting?

It's odd, but I do have some sympathy for the guy. He's obviously very strange and lonely and thus got incredibly attached to you. If you look at it from his perspective, it must be difficult when you just cut him out of your life when he's "known" you for so long. The offline messages are creepy however.

You shouldn't have stripped or "played along", not because it's disgusting but because it was encouraging him. However, blocking him was ultimately the right move for both of you.

Doesn't your boyfriend think what you did was weird? I would.

The thing is, the way he talk(ed) about it, it's like he thinks we actually had sex, when I got with my boyfriend he said something like "well I f***** you first"

i thought everyone does that **** on cam. You usually know the person tho