I have always had Bi tendancies so don't try to pull the "you were always just gay" thing.
Anyway during high school I dated several girls but no guys (because I was keeping it a secret as I thought it was wrong); I came out of all of these relationships with nothing good to say about the girls I dated.
They all seemed really nice at first, they were funny and pretty etc; but after we started going out they changed into a completely different person like all the stuff that I found attractive about their personalities was just an act. They were manipulative, back stabbing, petty, self centred, and just genrally a massive Bi*ch.
It seemed to me that the minute we started going out it became all about them. So eventually I decided that if this was what was going to happen every time I should just stop caring what other people will think and try a relationship with a guy.
So now a comparison between similar situations with a teenage boyfriend and a teenage girlfriend...
I forgot the 6 month anniversary with my 2nd girlfriend, she told me (screamed it) and I said I was really sorry and that I had been distracted with exam revision, she said she didn't care if I was sorry and stormed off, after 2 days of not talking Im told by a friend she slept with some random guy at one of her friends parties, she didn't even actually end our relationship she just stormed off.
I forgot the birthday of my first boyfriend (we had only been going out a few weeks and I didn't really know but I should have asked), anyway he told me (in an indoor voice
) and I said I was really sorry and promised I would buy him a really great present etc, his answer was "its okay"
massive improvement on screaming.
I think the title of this thread is a bit dramatic and I know not all girls are like the ones I dated; but alot of them are; and now every time I see a girl I find attractive, almost instantly I think "she looks great but shes probably a self centred bi*ch.