I have a boyfriend who I love, but I feel I have lesbian tendencies...

I love my boyfriend very much and enjoy sex, but I don't get sooo excited by watching porn between heterosexual couples, i get more turned on by lesbians. I also generally only stop in the street thinking 'wow isn't she beautiful'.

It's weird, I've liked lots of guys before, and now i really love my long-term boyfriend, I just feel like he is the exception, that I'm interested in doing stuff with other girls!?

Thanks for sharing!

House's diagnosis: Threesome.

Reply 3

idontthinkso

8

Tell him. He'll be delighted!

Reply 4

Victor-PP

15

Have a MFF threesome. I'm sure he won't say no to that.

Reply 5

miike1234

14

Threes the magic number...

Reply 6

bacforever3

12

Original post by Anonymous

I love my boyfriend very much and enjoy sex, but I don't get sooo excited by watching porn between heterosexual couples, i get more turned on by lesbians. I also generally only stop in the street thinking 'wow isn't she beautiful'.

It's weird, I've liked lots of guys before, and now i really love my long-term boyfriend, I just feel like he is the exception, that I'm interested in doing stuff with other girls!?

Riigghhttt.... can I ask, so do they actually turn you on a 'you want to do something to them' sense or in a 'women are very sexy' sense or something else?

Reply 7

Gaeilgeoir

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Original post by Victor-PP

Have a MFF threesome. I'm sure he won't say no to that.

He definitely won't.. :L

Reply 8

Anonymous #1

OP

not sure, i just think women are really cute and mysterious, and i guess we would know how to satisfy each other... I'd like to put my hand there but also to have stuff done to me.

I don't think my boyfriend would approve. He likes the idea of us being exclusive...

Reply 9

aeterno

15

I'll repeat what pretty much everyone else has already said - threesome

He's going to have a permanent grin stuck on his face.

Reply 10

Melanie-v

10

The way I see it, people can go through life without trying one of the genders though they are bi. You get into relationships with people - you say you love your boyfriend.

It's not one or the other, you can be anywhere on the spectrum between straight, bi, lesbian, etc.

If your relationship ends, the next one might be with a girl, or it might not. You can experiment when you're single.
If not, is it really worth cheating on the person you love for? (Not that I'm implying you would, general thought here)

Are you attracted to your bf? And are you attracted to girls? One more than the other?

(edited 13 years ago)

Reply 11

helpnowplease

12

This is sooo me!
But, I wouldn't want a threesome...Unless it was another one of me involved.
He can't touch no other girls tits but mine.
¬_¬

OP

Original post by helpnowplease

This is sooo me!
But, I wouldn't want a threesome...Unless it was another one of me involved.
He can't touch no other girls tits but mine.
¬_¬

yeah i'm the same, i wouldn't want a threesome as i like to be exclusive, hypocritical I know...

I wouldn't actually go through with these thoughts, they're just there, and strange, I feel like a lesbian in love with a guy! And yeah i find him attractive, both face and body but I can't say I find all dicks attractive. The female form on the other hand...

Reply 14

bacforever3

12

Original post by Anonymous

not sure, i just think women are really cute and mysterious, and i guess we would know how to satisfy each other... I'd like to put my hand there but also to have stuff done to me.

I don't think my boyfriend would approve. He likes the idea of us being exclusive...

To me I think theres a big difference between wanting to do it to someone else and to have an attractive woman do it to you....

I think there are a number of females who would agree women are more attractive than men without neceesarily following through that they are overly attracted to women sexually.

Me and an experimenting friend discuss this sometimes and sort of see the difference between loving women in an idolitary sense, loving women as a sort of referral for positive feelings about yourself which you refrain from feeling about yourself, loving women as a sexual partner, loving women as a fulfiller of desires in yourself and a few more lol...

Reply 15

girlwithsharpteeth

8

I think most people find the female body as attractive, whether male or female, thats just how we're brought up to think with a lot of media exposure etc. it doesn't necessarily mean you're a lesbian. In fact I doubt you are a lesbian as you say you're attracted to your boyfriend, so if you are attracted to women in a sexual way, it's far more likely that you're bi-sexual, which is far more normal than most people are willing to accept (especially men :P). If you think women are beautiful but can't really see yourself doing sexual things to them, its more likely that you are heterosexual but appreciate womens beauty - does this make sense?

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U.S Lecce

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Original post by Anonymous

I love my boyfriend very much and enjoy sex, but I don't get sooo excited by watching porn between heterosexual couples, i get more turned on by lesbians. I also generally only stop in the street thinking 'wow isn't she beautiful'.

It's weird, I've liked lots of guys before, and now i really love my long-term boyfriend, I just feel like he is the exception, that I'm interested in doing stuff with other girls!?

MARRY ME!

Reply 17

helpnowplease

12

Original post by Anonymous

yeah i'm the same, i wouldn't want a threesome as i like to be exclusive, hypocritical I know...

I wouldn't actually go through with these thoughts, they're just there, and strange, I feel like a lesbian in love with a guy! And yeah i find him attractive, both face and body but I can't say I find all dicks attractive. The female form on the other hand...

Lol, yeah this is me.
I find other girls so hot! I sometimes wanan do stuff with them, but i love my bf. Like, i'd see a girl walking down teh st and think, damn...she's hot.

Reply 18

username533239

17

time for more post-whoring!

Yep. I just did it

Reply 19

Anonymous #2

Ah this completely sums me up
When I came out to my boyfriend, he was upset and said we should break up because he felt he was holding me back from what I really wanted to do. But then he didn't which is good because I love him very much, even though I'm not really attracted to him in the same way I find girls attractive.

I have a boyfriend who I love, but I feel I have lesbian tendencies...

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