Probably wouldn't be my kind of guy. Not because I subscribe to some sort of gender stereotyping nonsense about "alpha males", but because I don't spend that much time on my appearance myself so I don't imagine we'd go together that well. I certainly wouldn't live up to his expectations! [Also, I don't think I'd go for anyone who describes himself as "an alpha male" and a "lad".] I like my men scruffy but clean. However, I don't have an issue with a man doing all that vanity routine stuff in principle and I think it's pretty sad that some people think men should be forbidden from taking an interest in their appearances just because they're male.