After being with my boyfriend for 8 months we split up a few days ago,- both of us have been really upset and it's still not getting any better.
After arguments, space and some chat, yesterday we decided to see how it goes over the summer.
He's very stressed at the moment, and has personal issues which get him down, and I really want to make him happy,- but I don't want to be going too fast, if he wants to take it slower than we did before.
I was thinking of going up there with some gifts, not material ones whcih we normally buy but nice ones:
A nice photo frame with a picture of us in,- we've only taken a few photos, probably ten or so, and all are on Facebook,- this would be nice in his room?
Some chocolates,- to eat when he's feeling down?
A packet of super noodles (as a joke),- because he lives off these things.
A nice tshirt and a matching necklace from like Topman,- as that's what he tends to wear.
and a card with how I feel about him on,- like a happy card?
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Do you think that's taking it too far,- and if I ask to stop,- even as friends, as it's a 180 mile journey there and we only see each other once a week, I usually stopped Friday-Sunday but is it too soon to ask to stay?
And what about like, coming onto him after giving him the gifts and giving him the best night he's had in ages?
(I'm really just trying to make him smile for a while, cheer up him and show him I care, rather than just saying it?) - he's a guy and i'm a guy btw.