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It certainly has no power over me. As much as sex is all nice and lovely - I will not get irrational and hypnotized over getting it.

Though vaginas are all nice and lovely - it has no power over me. I am self-controlled and disciplined and thus do not go around promiscuously and follow the trail of "pussy".

A weak man (if he should be called such!) is overcome by the "power of pussy". A strong man subjects the "power of pussy" to his command and rule and exercises phallic power when needed and at his will and time.


You, Sir, are of the former!! :proud:
Reply 61
Original post by Reflexive
I accept it's possible for men to learn to not put it on a pedestal but the reason they tend to is that it has become so valuable in modern society.



True. Its engrained in us to try and pull/sleep with as many attractive women as possible, and half the guys you see in clubs will only have a good night if they end up pulling.

I think that's sad. I luckily learned from a young age what manipulative bitches some girls can be, so focused my efforts on finding a girl I liked and making her my gf.

Took a while... but dayum it paid off.
Reply 62
Original post by James4d
True. Its engrained in us to try and pull/sleep with as many attractive women as possible, and half the guys you see in clubs will only have a good night if they end up pulling.

I think that's sad. I luckily learned from a young age what manipulative bitches some girls can be, so focused my efforts on finding a girl I liked and making her my gf.

Took a while... but dayum it paid off.


Nice one mate, you took the wise path!
OP, you're the man.
Original post by James4d
True. Its engrained in us to try and pull/sleep with as many attractive women as possible, and half the guys you see in clubs will only have a good night if they end up pulling.

I think that's sad. I luckily learned from a young age what manipulative bitches some girls can be, so focused my efforts on finding a girl I liked and making her my gf.

Took a while... but dayum it paid off.


Exactly this.
Reply 65
Wait, we're constantly and consistently objectified and you call it power? When I walk down the street in summer wearing *gasp* a skirt that is above my knees and some random guy wolf-whistles at me, I don't feel powerful. I feel angry. I feel like just because I'm a woman, it's acceptable to judge me by looks alone. In your OP you say that girls want a disney prince and men want a porn star. Well, at least Prince Charming actually has a personality.

Ani DiFranco sums it up pretty well:

God help you if you are an ugly girl,
Of course pretty is also your doom,
Cause everyone harbours a secret hatred
For the prettiest girl in the room.
Reply 66
instinct? Women can only get pregnant once at a time. A man can impregnate as many as he can. Women will therefore be choosier about who gives them a baby. Men just want to spread their seed to as many who will take it. But then obviously societal factors come in to limit this with morals... so men won't sleep with just anyone (usually), and they must behave in a certain way to impress women.
Original post by riotgrrl
Wait, we're constantly and consistently objectified and you call it power? When I walk down the street in summer wearing *gasp* a skirt that is above my knees and some random guy wolf-whistles at me, I don't feel powerful. I feel angry. I feel like just because I'm a woman, it's acceptable to judge me by looks alone. In your OP you say that girls want a disney prince and men want a porn star. Well, at least Prince Charming actually has a personality.

Ani DiFranco sums it up pretty well:

God help you if you are an ugly girl,
Of course pretty is also your doom,
Cause everyone harbours a secret hatred
For the prettiest girl in the room
.


The blokes don't, they all want to get in there.


Solution to OP's problems is one very Eastern in nature - the power of the pussy is the power you give it. Be like water my friend, be like water.
Well isn't it similar with other animals? That's just the way things are, stop being a bitch about it and deal with it.
In nature, the males often make up some sort of a song and dance and the women chose whether to mate with them or not?
Like the male peacocks prance about with their peacock tails and the female is like 'ooh I like him , I chose that one'...
Well in the case of humans, a guy acts confident and tries to hit on a girl and if she likes it she goes with him if not she walks away?

I'm guessing you're just struggling with the competition and can't get a girl? Tip: stop wasting time moaning about it on TSR.
Reply 69
Original post by Dirac Delta Function
The blokes don't, they all want to get in there.


Actually, if you look around TSR you'd be surprised at how many males post stuff like "pretty girls are always such stuck-up bitches, they think they're better than us, etc."
Original post by riotgrrl
Actually, if you look around TSR you'd be surprised at how many males post stuff like "pretty girls are always such stuck-up bitches, they think they're better than us, etc."


Bittertude.

My experience suggests otherwise.
Reply 71
Words can not describe how offended i am reading that bull****. Do not reduce women to their genitalia.
Original post by Dirac Delta Function
The blokes don't, they all want to get in there.


Solution to OP's problems is one very Eastern in nature - the power of the pussy is the power you give it. Be like water my friend, be like water.



But the ones that don't get in or know they can't get in resort to saying things like "she ain't as pretty as she thinks" and pretending they have seen and had better. Have you ever noticed? Average girls have it best as every man and his dog think they have a chance. Ugly girls aren't acknowledged and pretty girls are feared.
Reply 73
Original post by MrsCrackFox
Well isn't it similar with other animals? That's just the way things are, stop being a bitch about it and deal with it.
In nature, the males often make up some sort of a song and dance and the women chose whether to mate with them or not?
Like the male peacocks prance about with their peacock tails and the female is like 'ooh I like him , I chose that one'...
Well in the case of humans, a guy acts confident and tries to hit on a girl and if she likes it she goes with him if not she walks away?

I'm guessing you're just struggling with the competition and can't get a girl? Tip: stop wasting time moaning about it on TSR.


I see merit in the biological argument but it's way too simplified. In many species the female is dominant as opposed to the male for a start. Secondly there are tribes where females are dominant. Thirdly we are not just animals, we have many more layers than that, psychological layers, social layers, systems, organisations, countries, civilisations, histories... it's absurd to just say the human condition is just like that of monkeys or whatever.

This very fact allows for the separation to becomes amplified, the differences to become vast. Since humans can accumulate wealth and status of vast quantities, animals cannot. The comparisons with the animal kingdom are possible and in many cases can tell us a great deal, but it's certainly not the whole story, not by a long stretch.

I already said in my first post I don't have girls hanging off my arm. And that I agree just whining about things is self-defeating. So what you're saying is no one can ever argue against the status quo? Unless they're highly successful with women; then they might have a point?
Reply 74
Original post by Trigger
Words can not describe how offended i am reading that bull****. Do not reduce women to their genitalia.


Great argument there - you should join a debating society.
Original post by Trigger
Words can not describe how offended i am reading that bull****. Do not reduce women to their genitalia.


True. There's also tits and ass. Much more to women than just the vagina...
Reply 76
Original post by riotgrrl
Wait, we're constantly and consistently objectified and you call it power? When I walk down the street in summer wearing *gasp* a skirt that is above my knees and some random guy wolf-whistles at me, I don't feel powerful. I feel angry. I feel like just because I'm a woman, it's acceptable to judge me by looks alone. In your OP you say that girls want a disney prince and men want a porn star. Well, at least Prince Charming actually has a personality.

Ani DiFranco sums it up pretty well:

God help you if you are an ugly girl,
Of course pretty is also your doom,
Cause everyone harbours a secret hatred
For the prettiest girl in the room.


If there wasn't such a gap between the sexual desirability of women vis-a-vis men women wouldn't be objectified as much. In such a world, women would whistle at much as much as men whistle at women!
Reply 77
Original post by Dirac Delta Function
Bittertude.

My experience suggests otherwise.


Every guy wants to sleep with the pretty girls, but there arnt many very pretty girls who can hold the average semi-intelligent male's interest beyond sex.
Its hard to talk about the dominance of a certain sex in interpersonal relationships without making a bunch of generalisations. For a start, women's courting at clubs and whatnot isn't simply limited by their makeup, because women, as with men, also have to be confident, or you're just going to feel like a small fish in a big pond. Women can be shy too, and making us synonymous to our vaginas alone is an example of why feminists take offence at how they are presented by society.

What exactly is being revealed here? That many men are uncomfortable with the pressure of being an alpha male and that some women wield their pussy with the intent to manipulate? We're all human, and we don't necessarily have to conform to the active and passive stereotypes of men and women.
Some guys do really give womens' parts power and the things some guys to do get laid... or to pull, I weep for guys that act like idiots, douchebags or whatever to be 'alpha males' and show off

anyone can have power and an inflated ego accordingly if they're treated like they're some god or as if they're so hot, I just think it's especially sad when guys get obsessed with a girl that's clearly bitchy and stuck up but still go for her, then they just get played