I use a sex toy because I'm not getting any sex (male)
as i stated in my topic about never having had the opportunity for sex, i am a 20 year old male virgin.
i use a sex toy because its the best way i can simulate sex. i first bought a fleshlight in summer last year. it started to break inside and lose its feel, so i bought a pussy/ass combo. i have been using this since december.
you might wonder why i dont just use my hand. its because using my hand is boring - its not anything like what real sex should be like. with a sex toy, i can move as if i am having sex, go in different positions, pound it hard, while i have porn on in the background. i even like looking in the mirror while i go at it.
i do this once every 3 or 4 days. if i dont do it often enough, i become grumpy and depressed so i need this. of course sex would be much better but this is the closest i have got.
my question to girls is: do you think this is strange for a guy to do? can you see where i am coming from and why i do this:
my question to guys is: have any of you got sex toys? would you think using one would be much better than your hand?
i use a sex toy because its the best way i can simulate sex. i first bought a fleshlight in summer last year. it started to break inside and lose its feel, so i bought a pussy/ass combo. i have been using this since december.
you might wonder why i dont just use my hand. its because using my hand is boring - its not anything like what real sex should be like. with a sex toy, i can move as if i am having sex, go in different positions, pound it hard, while i have porn on in the background. i even like looking in the mirror while i go at it.
i do this once every 3 or 4 days. if i dont do it often enough, i become grumpy and depressed so i need this. of course sex would be much better but this is the closest i have got.
my question to girls is: do you think this is strange for a guy to do? can you see where i am coming from and why i do this:
my question to guys is: have any of you got sex toys? would you think using one would be much better than your hand?
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yes i have sex toys... but i generally use them during sex rather than instead of it.
Mum walking in on son masturbating with hand: 
Mum walking in on son masturbating with pussy/ass combo
Mum walking in on son masturbating with pussy/ass combo
Fair enough... stop telling people though.
I remember once when I was 16 and I was just beginning to do a google search at my friends house using his computer, my search word began with 'f' and 'fleshlight' came up in my friends search history. I've never seen anybody explode so quickly into saying the sentence 'I WASN'T LOOKING FOR IT, IT WASN'T ME OK?!!' all while I rolled around laughing at his over reaction.
(edited 13 years ago)
feels pretty weird thinking about itOriginal post by emeleh
I would think it was weird if he chose a sex toy instead of actual sex.
oh of course. i would never swap it for real sex. i use it because i am not getting any sex.
Original post by Installation
Fair enough... stop telling people though.
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Original post by James4d
How about every time you feel like shagging your sex toy, you go to a bar instead and try and find yourself a woman.
dont know what part of the country you live in but bars where i am are where people go with their friends to drink, chat and possibly play pool or go on the slot machines.
Original post by Dr Pressure
oh of course. i would never swap it for real sex. i use it because i am not getting any sex.
Yeah but wouldn't the fact you know you have a toy at home which can please you stop you from trying to meet a girl?
I dunno, I don't know your personal circumstances!
Original post by emeleh
Yeah but wouldn't the fact you know you have a toy at home which can please you stop you from trying to meet a girl?
I dunno, I don't know your personal circumstances!
I dunno, I don't know your personal circumstances!
Does having a dildo or vibrator stop women from looking for a man?
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