Urgent help please! Just found out I've been cheated on

that quote was for curlyhaireddude

I can't imagine how hurt you are. I agree with most of these guys, stay calm, make sure the facts are right first before you jump to anything. In my opinion, you deserve better- but it's all about what you want.

Try some nice music to cheer yourself up!

Good luck xxx

I didn't ask who the quote was for, I asked what 'this' means. Everyone on tsr keeps saying it but I don't understand why.

I didn't ask who the quote was for, I asked what 'this' means. Everyone on tsr keeps saying it but I don't understand why.

Its hard as it has been three years, but personally i would forward your bf the messages, pack up the crap he has at your place and leave on the door step and don't answer his calls. It seems pretty obvious to me he has been cheating and i personally wouldnt allow myself to be made a fool of any longer.

Good luck and stay strong.

The initial panic has passed but I've still got a horrible fluttery heart It's killing me not being able to just pick up the phone and call him.

If he has cheated then you're right, I do deserve better and the relationship will be over. Just feels like I've wasted over three years of my life on him.

Thanks x

Tbh I wouldn't have come to the conclusion that he's been cheating just from what he's said, because like other people have pointed it out it's open to interpretation. Did you friend ask him what he meant? Is it possible for your friend to ask him now?

Do you mean forward them so he knows I have seen them? Unfortunately he owes me money so I can't just blank him when he eventually picks up my message for him to call me. Thanks - it was obvious to me when I saw the messages that he had but some peoples replies had given me some doubt/ hope.

Thanks, trying my hardest.

Well now youre in a position. Is he likely to pay you back soon?

Not at all, he's all the broke and I was meant to be lending him a further £350 in a couple of days. He has a brother who has paid me back on his behalf before so I may well see if that could be arranged.

Sorry, it's his friend who forwarded the emails to me not him. I guess he must have seen all the lovey posts on my partners page and felt sorry for me. I could ask the friend to do more probing but I don't really feel like playing games; now I know I just want to confront him myself.

Good luck be prepared to not get it back and def dont lend him that cash. He doesnt seem very nice or stable at all.

Sounds like he could have just been trying to sound cool in front of his friend. not really conclusive.

Ahh okays, just wondering why your friend didn't ask outright what he meant. Does your friend deffo think he's cheated too? Happy eyes

To be honest I never wanted to lend him a penny in the first place but he doesn't really let me say no to him. He definitely won't be seeing that £350, only just realised how sad it sounds that he blackmailed me in to it in the first place.



He could have, and I know he does that because he loves to be known as a ladies man. I guess my gut feeling is just telling me he wasn't bragging this time, it was more like an admission of guilt than the usual 'I have girls always hitting on me, bro'.

I don't think his friend was in any doubt as to what he meant, hence why he forwarded the messages to me.

Well even if he hasn't cheated on you, do you really want to be with someone like that?

Gosh :/ Well that really sucks :/ do you know what you're gonna say to him?