why are you on anon? ashamed of what you said? theres tones of points to having relationships
I duno my ex screwed with my head, i didn't really want to broadcast that with my name and have more complications there... Soz for the thred, people have heard it before blahblah.. im just having a really bad day.
Untill it falls in a downward spiral and you get drunken texts from him now hes with another girl saying he still loves you... thats great
You see, that's my point, that wouldn't happen in a good relationship and you wouldn't be feeling like you are now about the whole idea of being in a r/ship.
You see, that's my point, that wouldn't happen in a good relationship and you wouldn't be feeling like you are now about the whole idea of being in a r/ship.
Yes I know this... im not completely stupid im just angry and upset and thinking what the hell am i doing with myself and trying to justify the fact i slept with a friend after my ex sent me texts because I was so upset and then trying to tell myself i have no feelings for said friend as it was just meaningless sex but he was all we should see each other again but as they have just gotten into a relationship thats a no and they arn't really talking to me anymore because of this. And telling myself I havn't become a slut i am just hurt but since I have done this and made out with people I shouldn't chances of me getting into a relationship is about zilch and the only guys im interested in are players and completely self centred not people who are actully decent personality wise and which just makes me feel stupid and shallow and i think maybe i only see relationships now as sex but not being called a slut. So.... I come on here and start a thread... probably not the best way to vent but I am just so arghgH and had someone with sever depression asking me out earlier and I was trying to say no in the nicest way so i dont tip them over the edge or something... just a really bad day
No one needed this rant... sorry if you are reading this. I just need to get it out of my system somehow... Thread is completely pointless along with this post. Sorry.
lol it doesn't matter, its good that you've had those experiences, and it sounds cliche and trite when you talk about them sometimes but what does that matter? They're some of the sweetest periods of your life!
If you want there to be a point, then there always is....otherwise there doesnt have to be (open relationships etc)
...but it's pretty simple, if you like someone, you have a relationship with them, where you share and do things together, express feelings, have fun and enjoy yourselves... if it's just with one person you become a lot closer to them. If you're not getting much from the relationship or you dont like the person...then there's no point being in one.
Ok, maybe I have just become a total cynic since my ex split with me after our crappy 2year fail of a relationship based mainly on sex... Maybe it's because I felt I got exactly the same feeling as that "relationship" with a one night stand without the guy making me feel like crap... Maybe I am missing something, but what is the point of relationships?