Men/ Women out there, are you happy with your, or your boyfriends penis size?

Keep anon.

I have micropenis. Needless to say I cannot have any quality of life whatsoever. I'm only about 4.5 inches erect.

Maybe that is to make it more even. I mean women get periods, pregnancy and are the poor sods that have to give birth. Men just get the pleasure of the sex so maybe a bit of pressure and hard work is fair lol

Women's orgasms are like over 9,000 times better though.

And like 9,000 times less common...slight exaggeration but you get my point lol

On the whole I agree with you. Mind you, wouldn't you say women can still get considerable pleasure even if they don't orgasm, because it comes in waves?

Like I said earlier in this thread with women I think it is more about the journey than the destination. So yeah I don't think we need to orgasm to get considerable pleasure. But with men I think it is about the destination, well at least they should get to the destination every time.

Whilst we are on this topic lol Just wondering if anyone else agrees with me and I really want a males perspective on this. For men are there different levels of orgasm? Like an OMG WOW orgasm and then there is just the Meh orgasm? haha

Well some orgasms can be considerably better than others and it usually relates to:
1. the build-up of mental excitement
2. the build-up of how long you have been having sexy time for

and generally correlates with the amount of jizz. It's why it's much more fun if a woman is daring, teasey or pushes boundaries because it pushes up number 1.

I often spend a considerable amount of time masturbating; if I push to finish in a couple of minutes I get a meh orgasm and might as well not have bothered.

For me any pleasure that doesn't come from the orgasm comes from the changes in pressure on my penis, and the buzzing sensation from my foreskin or other hopefully moist-ish surface running over the head of my penis. But it's of a very different quality to the orgasm, particularly the first one is more similar to when you stretch your muscles out, and I expect the second one is a lot like a standard clitoral sensation.

If you're ever concerned about the quality of orgasm you are giving a man, it's most probably mid-range. There is a lot of excitement because of the whole having a woman there doing it to you, but she isn't likely to push your buttons quite like you can do yourself unless she's had a lot of practice Anecdotal though and I'm not so sexually experienced. Like I say you can be a tease or act naughty to up the mental arousal and improve his orgasm.

*insert embarrassed laugh*

No matter how old I get I still giggle about sex haha
I was just wondering as in my experience with the same partner you can really see the difference between the two different types of orgasm by the after effect. Its either just pretty much normal after, ya know out of breath, happier than before but can still function normal and then there is the he really can't move, gone dizzy and can't wipe the grin from his face and can't even muster up enough strength/energy for snuggles lol

I think this correlates to how often ya have sex though. A bit of sexual frustration seems to lead to WOW orgasm, everyday is just Meh. lol

Are you joking? From my experience around 70%+ of women use them.

Deary me, can I have a go too?

I think I have a **** sex drive, I've only experienced that a couple of times in my life!!

How do you know you only like big willies(in your sig) if you have only had decent sized cocks?

Out of interest, exactly how small are you guys? Its anon so theres no point being shy. I doubt its as much of a problem as you think.

No i was referring to them, not myself. They might think women in general would prefer 7-8 inches and the penis to be really thick. I doubt a virgin has been insulted about the size of his penis by a girl. So they would rather avoid the trouble of rushing into sex with a girl and being bothered about how well they performed. No guy really needs to worry about that. Also, they might prefer to wait for a girl who truly loves them. This can build into a serious strong relationship where how great the sex is, is not the biggest issue. Does that make sense? I'm sure they might reply to you and tell you how they feel about it.

yes but how do we know if you had a good journey or not unless you orgasm? very few girls will just say "That was crap."

when you say you dont notice if its big or small unless you have something to compare it to, do you mean like a dildo/vibrator because over half of women use one so thats over half of women that have something to compare regularly, and then out of those that dont im guessing a fair few have had a large penis at some point in their lifes.

Maybe it is to compensate for lack of a guy but the fact that a girl uses a larger toy than the guy shes dating since buying the toy, can effect the guys confidence and makes us think "would she rather me be that size" which just adds to our worries, but if a man did this about the things a girl's insecure about and made her worries worse (eg, if he called you fat once for everytime you masturabated) he'd get dumped or at the very least all her friends would tell her to dump him.

Ok when guys talk like that to each other we're usually joking. I talk like that with friends but i'd never actually dump a girl because she wasn't as good as a previous partner in bed, i mean men usually still get to orgasm even if the girl just lies there.

But ok lets say so far all the worries are even, we then have premature ejaculation ontop of all the others, and if we cant get it up its our fault and yet if the woman isn't wet enough is still somehow our fault, and we're expected to put in at least 15 minutes foreplay in everytime we have sex and (although alot do) i've also dated some who just dont give any back.

That vast majority of women prefer 7-8 inches (or more), so of course they're going go be disappointed if a guy is smaller, because it means that the sex won't be as good at it could be if he was bigger - and as good as she has had before.

This. Most women, especially young ones, have one or several vibrators/dildos, so if they're used to masturbating with a large sextoy, an average-sized (or smaller) isn't going to feel as good.
Plus, like you've also said, most women have tried a big cock.

Women ALWAYS blame men if the sex isn't good, no matter what happened.