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Men/ Women out there, are you happy with your, or your boyfriends penis size?

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Yep I'm happy with my boyfriend's =]
Original post by bloomblaze
Im not.

I assume you have a biggish one, judging by what youve said. (?)


Yes. He does have a big one.
Reply 242
Original post by QwentyJ
Sure, but this is also not entirely quantifiable. The average human penis being anywhere between 5.25 to 6.35 right? Ok, here you go:

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i'd say its more 5-6 but ok

ok well the second is completly disregarded as no women have actually replied, as for the first there's no evidence at all to back up what they're saying but if these larger toys really didnt sell that well then how come they're still being made and produced in quantity? and how come websites like this can produce this many varieties and stay in business? http://sextoyfun.com/

but anyway its the dildos that are above each individual man rather than a generalisation that will intimidate him for example i dated a girl with a 14 inch dildo once and that intimidated me a fair bit and there are alot of men with less than a 6 or 7 inch penis. Plus there's the other issues men have eg. erectile dysfunction - where her dildo is always hard, and premature ejaculation - where her dildo never finishes before she does, then theres the men that care about pleasuring their woman and dont like being outdone by any sized dildo/vibrator.
Reply 243
Original post by philbphil
i'd say its more 5-6 but ok

ok well the second is completly disregarded as no women have actually replied, as for the first there's no evidence at all to back up what they're saying but if these larger toys really didnt sell that well then how come they're still being made and produced in quantity? and how come websites like this can produce this many varieties and stay in business? http://sextoyfun.com/

but anyway its the dildos that are above each individual man rather than a generalisation that will intimidate him for example i dated a girl with a 14 inch dildo once and that intimidated me a fair bit and there are alot of men with less than a 6 or 7 inch penis. Plus there's the other issues men have eg. erectile dysfunction - where her dildo is always hard, and premature ejaculation - where her dildo never finishes before she does, then theres the men that care about pleasuring their woman and dont like being outdone by any sized dildo/vibrator.



I'm not an economist, but stuff you have lots off, you try to sell of cheap. There's a reason why the prices are lower and why they're being pushed to the front. It's good advertising.

14 inch? What kind of women have you been dating?! Sure there are, that's life though. No two things are the same.

For example, some women can never orgasm! I'd say that's pretty sucky too. 99.9% of men can orgasm, yet many women can't!
Reply 244
can't we all just have sex and get along?
:laugh:
Reply 245
Extremely satisfied :smile: x
Reply 246
Original post by dmz
can't we all just have sex and get along?
:laugh:


In a perfect world yeas, but the world is not haha
Reply 247
Original post by QwentyJ
I'm not an economist, but stuff you have lots off, you try to sell of cheap. There's a reason why the prices are lower and why they're being pushed to the front. It's good advertising.

14 inch? What kind of women have you been dating?! Sure there are, that's life though. No two things are the same.

For example, some women can never orgasm! I'd say that's pretty sucky too. 99.9% of men can orgasm, yet many women can't!


it is pretty sucky, but i guess you cant miss what you've never had...
Reply 248
Original post by Smophy
Men generally watch more porn. Not that many women watch porn on their own (not with their partner) compared to men. So by that it seems more likely for men to compare us to porn stars than vice versa.


Still doesn't mean that women don't compare men to pornstars.

Smophy
See in my experience it is pretty much even, if not then its men being more ruthless. I do admit women talk more about men than men do about women but its not all critical lol


Try going to other forums or even dating sites, and you will see that women are far mroe shallow, critical and ruthless than men are. Hell, even on this forum you will see the same.
And in real life it's even worse.
Reply 249
Original post by philbphil
totally agree with both the first and the last, but you cant ejaculate without orgasm from penetrative sex, can you?


Actually you can, but it's not that common among those who aren't familiar with tantra. In tantra there's a lot of information about "internal" orgasms for men, where they orgasm but don't ejaculate.
Some of my close friends have told me that they nearly always ejaculate when they're with a woman, but hardly ever orgasm. One of my friends have only orgasmed 3 times in his life, and he's been with tons of women.
Reply 250
good answers so far, lets keep the coming!
Original post by Smophy
:colondollar: *insert embarrassed laugh*

No matter how old I get I still giggle about sex haha
I was just wondering as in my experience with the same partner you can really see the difference between the two different types of orgasm by the after effect. Its either just pretty much normal after, ya know out of breath, happier than before but can still function normal and then there is the he really can't move, gone dizzy and can't wipe the grin from his face and can't even muster up enough strength/energy for snuggles lol

I think this correlates to how often ya have sex though. A bit of sexual frustration seems to lead to WOW orgasm, everyday is just Meh. lol


100% correct and it depends how horny a guy is in general I guess...:wink:
Original post by TickTockBoom
Out of interest, exactly how small are you guys? Its anon so theres no point being shy. I doubt its as much of a problem as you think.


Hello again.

Id rather not say.
Reply 253
More than happy :smile:
Original post by bloomblaze
Hello again.

Id rather not say.


Fair enough.
Original post by Cabled
Spot on. That vast majority of women prefer 7-8 inches (or more), so of course they're going go be disappointed if a guy is smaller, because it means that the sex won't be as good at it could be if he was bigger - and as good as she has had before.

If penis size was just an aesthetic trait/feature like breasts are, then there would be many fewer men worrying, but unfortunately it isn't.


Wtf are you on about. I would not want my bf to have 8 inches. If he did, we could work around it, but that is not desirable.

My bf is around 5.5-6 inches and we already have to work around that size in certain positions (eg: doggy, or me sitting on top).

You live in a fantasy world if you think 8 inches is the ideal size. Any girl that says that is probably just trying to go with the perceived status quo, or doesn't realise how big an inch is, or is also living in a fantasy world.

Ugh these threads are so annoying. You penis size obsessors are so annoying (as much as I sympathise, because god it must be hard to worry so much about something). What do you think of women? It's insulting! Does your dad have a giant cock? So did your mum settle for him, or him for her lol? Is that what every relationship is about in your mind?

Can every man who is happily married or have a loving gf realistically have a giant penis? I mean, think about it won't you! Roundabouts 50% of all men are smaller than average, but what - 90% of all men "settle down" as it were! Have they all had penis enlargement?!? What's more the people who struggle to get gfs are all defined by stuff like shyness, or insensitivity, or unattractiveness. Not by penis size.

In a world where penis size was as important as you seem to think it is: A large proportion of pleasant good looking men would be mysteriously left single forever, after a string of relationships that only lasted until they had sex with their partners. Is that the case? No.

What more evidence do you require? On all of the penis size threads, it is a small proportion of angsty males that go on like this is a problem - not any females.

Your sorry attitude and blatant sexism (yes, it is sexist to say that I am shallow and cruel, and irrational about penis size just because I am female) is what will prevent you from succeeding with girls.

Just, stop it *shakes penis angst out of Cabled*. Just relax! There are good things about you surely, likeable things, attractive things, think about them not your adequately sized penis. Penises aren't even the most important in sex, let alone in life.
Original post by Cabled
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I mean, I have small breasts, sometimes I get spots on my face, I would prefer a flatter stomach, I have an ugly scar on my flank, I wear glasses, and I don't think I'm that good at blowjobs.

None of us are perfect. No single imperfection is that important.

I still have a boyfriend who I think kinda likes me :redface:

It will be the same for you. And I doubt your penis size even counts as an imperfection, it's probably normal.
Wouldn't mind if it was a tiny bit bigger. I get really wet though so I guess it's my fault that I can't feel it sometimes :frown:
Original post by Anonymous
I mean, I have small breasts, sometimes I get spots on my face, I would prefer a flatter stomach, I have an ugly scar on my flank, I wear glasses, and I don't think I'm that good at blowjobs.

None of us are perfect. No single imperfection is that important.

I still have a boyfriend who I think kinda likes me :redface:

It will be the same for you. And I doubt your penis size even counts as an imperfection, it's probably normal.



The ironic thing is is that most of the really insecure guys are probably the guys who have normal sized equipment. Desensitisition to porn has made them feel inferior.
But as with any major complex, no one else can someone feel better or any different about it. The change has to come from inside the person with the issue.
Reply 259
my boyfriend has a perfect penis - minus the hair :L

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