Not another boring penis size debate

You would be really surprised (I'm back!)

Girls worry about a lot of things when it comes to this (and I'm not trying to blame guys for this btw), like: Is my hair down their right? Are my flaps down there right? Will I smell okay? Will I taste okay? Will I be good enough?

As much as I do still you from saying I seemed really nice (!) definitely a lot (most I would say) of girls worry about being good enough in bed. No wonder you seem intimidated, if you think all women are super confident and super critical in the bedroom!

I mean, girls probably don't have anything to worry about. But neither do guys Honestly I wish I could comfort you more, I'll just talk from anecdote here - but my girlfriends don't even talk about penis size. They don't care!

So many girls are romantics y'know all they want is for you to tell them they're pretty, be kind and sweet, funny (often) and if they think you're attractive then you're in - sure they want to be pleased in bed, but almost any sized penis would do for that (scientifically, we know that's the case).

So please don't worry so much! A girl who cares overtly about your size isn't worth your attention. She needs to grow up I think.

It's a well known fact.There's loads of info about it on the net.
I've never met a size queen and none of my mates have either.
Porn is just very misleading

ive read plenty of posts here on tsr by girls saying bigger is better etc etc

for an example of what im getting at, go to the time 14:50 in this google video documentary about the female orgasm http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=9215131779461901182#

those girls in the documentary certainly dont say size doesnt matter, in fact they are vocal about liking big ones due to bigger giving more physical stimulation,


they also make the whole thing sound like all the responsibility is on the man in sex, and they do no work to give the man pleasure

You aren't seriously taking what a bunch of loud teen girls on a forum say as a reliable indicator of the majority of women, right? That's like going to 4chan and immediately assuming everyone is a racist who loves to see innocents harmed.

It's simply not true. The internet is not a reliable source.

what forum are you talking about?

it's just really what you say saddens me and I don't believe it to be true at all.

You mentioned seeing plenty of girls on tsr talk about their size preference? Or was that another poster?

i said it, but other people said it too i think.

i was also referring to the documentary link i posted, look at time 14:50 in it. (on this page, a few posts ago)

post 83 on this page actually

Then that's the forum I'm referring to. TSR is simply not a good source for this information.

And let me be honest with you when I say none of my sexually active female friends have expressed anything about wanting only "bigger" men. None. And as I female, I can almost guarantee that I have had more frank discussions about sex and sexuality with female friends.

the documentary was a good example of womens views

for an example of what im getting at, go to the time 14:50 in this google video documentary about the female orgasm http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=9215131779461901182#

those girls in the documentary certainly dont say size doesnt matter, in fact they are vocal about liking big ones due to bigger giving more physical stimulation,

they also make the whole thing sound like all the responsibility is on the man in sex, and they do no work to give the man pleasure

When my bf was insecure about his penis, which was also normal size, I bought a pack of pornstar cards, and stuck them all over the walls when he was out.
When he came back, he was like WTF at first, but then I showed him them all - and you'd be really suprised, but like 90 percent of the guys on those cards had penises smaller than his. Those guys are chosen because they have nice dicks, so it really gave him a confidence boost.
Go have a look yourself, seriously - I'm sure you'll find that most pornstars are around the same size as you!

It's the same in the English documentary "My Penis and Everyone Else's", which is also a good example of most women being size-queens.

After about 12 minutes, 4 women are making their ideal penis in clay and all of them make big ones. And after that they have the freaking nerve to say that the pressure to be well-endowed is coming from men

http://topdocumentaryfilms.com/my-penis-and-everyone-elses/

Why? Did they survey lots of women? Or did they only get what they wanted to make a sensationalist "documentary". Unless I see actual reliable statistics, I will continue to believe that the vast majority of women could care less, as long as it's longer than 3 inches and/or you can make them cum another way.

look at the documentary above, which was posted by Cabled, in which women make their ideal penis in clay.....

4 women. Are you saying that is representative of the population as a whole?

no but what i mean is its an example of the kind of attitude ive experienced in real life

I'm very sorry that you've experienced that attitude, but please believe me when I say that most women, especially nice ones, will not give much of a **** about penis size beyond a certain point (3 inches).

With this whole debate - I just think no one will ever truly be satisfied with their piece because you always have that element of self doubt. Body type is way more important, and arguably facially aswell, because which girl would honestly want a 10 inch megatron attached to a gummy bear, no disrespect - but yeah I think providing your sexual partner is turned on by you, irregardless to the size of your manhood - she'll have a good time. Jus be confident