I like a Pakistani girl but am not myself. Can it work?

Ahhhh, don't get me started on them! Ok fine, if you insist! They make me They act all 'gangsta' but as soon as **** hits the fan, all pretence just drops.

Unfortunately I live around quite a few of them. Although, I take great satisfaction in making them think about their life when they try it

No =/ I was gonna say if you're an Arabic muslim , that might be a problem (not my own view) just for some reason Pakistani families don't like their kids marryings Arab families and vice versa. I don't think there shouldn't be any concern with beibg Bangladeshi, you should tell her how you feel? =3

Why not?

Most of them are drop-dead gorgeous. Long, dark, shiny hair, big, dark reflective eyes, slim but shapely body and beautiful skin colour. Not to mention DEM NOSES.

Im Bangladeshi.

hahaha im guessing u live in uk somewhere? lol ...nah we dont get em here its cas its the middle east but when i lived in london i remember all of em ...lol....maybe they will grow up to be different :P

LOOOL....proper asian :P
i would hate to go to ur wedding then...no free food

lol its all good...so u go to weddings just for food as well?? :P



i already helped the guy out in the beginning and then some random idiot started being all stubborn n thinking they were right so i was like screw u cant b bothered to argue with u anymore and then food came up :P
haha yh that bbq...it might b cold by the time it gets to u :P

Ok as a willing student please educate me, Sir. I was helping the brother out because i've seen this situation happen a countless number of times and lets just say it has not ended well. Most Pakistanis would be against marrying outside let alone an Indian/Bengali or Arab.

Personally most Pakistani girl would understand a Pakistani lad better than anyone else in my experience they are some of the most pious of muslims, carry themselves with pride and dignity, understand my culture and my views on certain matters. All around they are the best match for Pakistani men. I honestly don't get why a Pakistani guy/girl would choose an Indian/Bengali or Arab over a Pakistani.

Secondly why would i marry a Non-Pakistani Asian. There's a whole world out there and i never understand why a Pakistani would want to limit themselves and be mocked by people for marrying an Indian/Bengali or Arab.

Your parents should respect your own wishes.

I certainly don't treat my parents like all-knowing masters, they love me all the same, if yours feel the need to control your life in order to feel respected, then they aren't really very good parents.

nope it wont work

Your problem, imo, is that you accept the status quo. "Thats just how things are". It doesn't seem to bother you that this isn't supposed to be how things are or that we can actually change things. The younger generation are very different to their parents. In fact, a lot of parents are more open to the idea more now than ever. When a lot of Muslims are marrying out of religion, running off and doing all sorts of bad stuff, marrying someone of a different language pales in comparison. So we need to put things in perspective.

Also, imams are not like this. They need to get their message across because the elder lot, and people like you unfortunately, just don't get it. A Pakistani should marry a Pakistani-- this is cultural nonsense. If you married someone in Britain, no matter what race, the language barrier is not gonna be a major issue. Most people understand or speak English and I bet that's your first language anyway.

Your views are so un-Islamic it's almost laughable. Are you a muslim? For your sake, be a little humble and less arrogant on this subject. You really out to broaden your horizons.

Dw cool beans, i might be able to sort you out ;-)

Who doesn't :-p

To be honest, I don't really have a guideline on what would constitute a stereotypical Asian. I used the phrase because the person who I quoted seem to be talking about Asian girls that he finds stereotypical.

what ethnicity are you then? bangali
indian?

lool oh ok

A few of them will hopefully grow up to be different. Although, the majority that I once knew, are still the same. I am SO glad I never started a relationship with any of them...! If I saw an ex of mine hanging out on street corners or sitting on a doorstep with their baby, smoking some weed with their so called friends (which is where I've seen most of them end up, unfortunately) I would feel like a muppet for going out with them.

Hmmmm, the Middle East? That's one way of getting away from them! Congratulations, on making it there!

How about yourself? What do you think makes a stereotypical Asian?