Does this annoy anyone else?

Last night I went out with This guy for the first time. He found I was into him and he was sort of surprised but he felt the same. Ever since he got my number last Saturday(from my friend), we've been texting every single day. He asked to hang out yesterday so we did. It was kind of weird though. There were a lot of silences but anyways that's not what's bothering me.

When he dropped me off and I was at my front door with my key, he drove off. Shouldn't the guy at least wait for you to get inside or open the door at least? I mean it only takes like a minute so that really annoyed. It reminds me of what my ex used to do and because of that I'm kinda turned off by the guy.

It feels like they don't care or not into you if they're not willing to do that. It's weird and it makes me feel like they think I'm just any other girl like trashy or whatever.

All in all, I got text from him this morning saying good morning...

Am I making a big deal out of this?

I meant for him just to wait to see(from his car) if I got in okay.

I'm a huge fan of old school chivalry.

My best friend's (girl) bf was teaching me about some random chivalrous acts and I like doing them now. Makes me feel like a gentleman and my gf appreciates it.

Still I think in modern times chivalry is in fact dead for most people. I would stop expecting it from guys and instead just be pleasantly surprised when you do encounter it.

He probably assumed you've managed to grasp the utterly simple concept of opening a door.

he was driving you around whilst high....and you thought him not waiting for you to open the door was the off-putting part???

Unless the road you live on a very busy road where you cannot stop, it's generally very poor manners to just leave a girl before she at least opens the front door.

Last I checked we're supposed to do it not just for girls whom we are dating but also those who we are just friends with.

The lack of manners these days is appalling.

I don't think I would've mind if we hung out a lot but this was our first time ever hanging out. I thought he should've been sober at least for that at least until we smoked.

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You sound like a nice guy And yes I think I'll have to start doing that now. I really shouldn't be surprised with how the guys are around here...




Sometimes I forget how.

Paranoid troll is paranoid

you need to chill out man ....

yes, i would mind that! anyone who expected me to get in a car with them whilst they were stoned would be waiting a ****ing long time!!!

I'm not trolling okay?


I know..


I didn't know until I got in the car and he was driving and then he blurted it out that he was. Even if I did know, I still wouldn't have done anything most likely..

Nice guys finish last though. Just kidding my gf's a slamming hotty. What do you mean around here ? There must be a few decent guys that live near you ?

It's more my paranoia than anything. Normally it's ok because someone's home but once I dropped her of and the house was empty but I had to go home for something so I couldn't stay. Made sure she got in and locked the door behind her then rang her soon as I got home to make sure everything was ok.

I watch too much criminal minds

so does this mean your gay?

I seriously don't think there are any decent guys around here. That's pretty funny but still sweet



I'm a girl? What made you think that?

No there were a few other things as well..