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im attractive yet get no girls..

i've been told many times before that im very good looking, i do get a lot of attention from girls just eye contact however i get no girls. im interested in getting to know girls and having casual sex. What is my problem i see so many guys at uni with different girls everyday, and i wouldn't say they're physically attractive. My personality is good im funny but it only ever comes out once i get comfortable with someone i.e. after speaking for at least 3/5 mins.
ive been at my uni for 3 years but i haven't made any friends.

also my daily routine is basically as follows. wake up, eat, internet, then go gym for 1 hour then leave come home. i only go into uni twice a week as i have no other lectures on all other days so i dont bother going in.

do you think my problem of not getting girls is related to my lifestyle? I think I should be at uni more often but being this late in the year and being a 3rd year i dont know where to go to pick up girls. where on campus do you got to pick up girls and how do you approach them? and what do you say?

i'd prefer female replys but guys can too.
thanks

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definately need pics before we can give a valid opinion on the matter.
(edited 12 years ago)
You're either ugly or not funny and don't have the good personality you say you have..

You choose which you think it is...
maybe they're aware of your 'casual sex' attitude and steer clear.....

but definitely a change in routine would help, or try picking up girls in the gym seeing as you go there regularly anyway....
Reply 4
Maybe you get naked at parties and have a small...:teehee:
Reply 5
I suppose you're not good looking enough.
Original post by Anonymous
i've been told many times before that im very good looking


Did your mum/grandmother tell you that?
maybe youre not good looking and you just think you are
Reply 8
Maybe you're not actually attractive.
Well it seems that you only socialise 2 days a week, and that's when you have lectures so it's not ideal. That may be part of the problem.

You also might not seem open or friendly to them - what kind of air do you have about yourself?
Have you thought about making the first move yourself, or at least talking to people you don't know?

That's all I can think of really...
Reply 10
Original post by subbacultcha.
definately need pics before we can give a valid opinion on the matter.


that was really funny wasn't it, what did you hope to achieve from this post?
Reply 11
Being told by your mother that you're good looking =/= you're actually attractive

Sorry :colonhash:
Reply 12
Original post by wilshere
that was really funny wasn't it, what did you hope to achieve from this post?


What did you hope to achieve from this post? :holmes:
Reply 13
personality can't be good if you've made no friends

Plus how do you know you're attractive? Most people are not mean enough to tell you you're ugly, i lie about that to people all the time
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Reply 14
Original post by Anonymous
i've been told many times before that im very good looking, i do get a lot of attention from girls just eye contact however i get no girls. im interested in getting to know girls and having casual sex. What is my problem i see so many guys at uni with different girls everyday, and i wouldn't say they're physically attractive. My personality is good im funny but it only ever comes out once i get comfortable with someone i.e. after speaking for at least 3/5 mins.
ive been at my uni for 3 years but i haven't made any friends.

also my daily routine is basically as follows. wake up, eat, internet, then go gym for 1 hour then leave come home. i only go into uni twice a week as i have no other lectures on all other days so i dont bother going in.

do you think my problem of not getting girls is related to my lifestyle? I think I should be at uni more often but being this late in the year and being a 3rd year i dont know where to go to pick up girls. where on campus do you got to pick up girls and how do you approach them? and what do you say?

i'd prefer female replys but guys can too.
thanks


I'm sure your a good looking bloke, but looks aren't everything, any guy can get any girl, regardless of looks, either your personality is crap, or your just very shy
Reply 15
nah it's nothing to do with your lifestyle, uni isn't the only place you meet girls. perhaps its a confidence issue or something, maybe if you see a girl about a lot that you like the look of you could talk to them and go from there?
Socials??... if youre as good looking and funny as you say you are you should have no problem. Maybe actually go to uni a bit more... its surprising how easy it is to make friends if you actually go :tongue:
Reply 17
Original post by Anonymous
i've been told many times before that im very good looking, i do get a lot of attention from girls just eye contact however i get no girls. im interested in getting to know girls and having casual sex. What is my problem i see so many guys at uni with different girls everyday, and i wouldn't say they're physically attractive. My personality is good im funny but it only ever comes out once i get comfortable with someone i.e. after speaking for at least 3/5 mins.
ive been at my uni for 3 years but i haven't made any friends.

also my daily routine is basically as follows. wake up, eat, internet, then go gym for 1 hour then leave come home. i only go into uni twice a week as i have no other lectures on all other days so i dont bother going in.

do you think my problem of not getting girls is related to my lifestyle? I think I should be at uni more often but being this late in the year and being a 3rd year i dont know where to go to pick up girls. where on campus do you got to pick up girls and how do you approach them? and what do you say?

i'd prefer female replys but guys can too.
thanks


you seem a bit like a snob because of your massively high opinion of yourself.
Reply 18
Original post by Refrigerator
Well it seems that you only socialise 2 days a week, and that's when you have lectures so it's not ideal. That may be part of the problem.

You also might not seem open or friendly to them - what kind of air do you have about yourself?
Have you thought about making the first move yourself, or at least talking to people you don't know?

That's all I can think of really...


thanks for the sensible reply, to be honest ive always got this mature and serious face on i rarely ever smile unless im in the company of someone else. making the first move is difficult because i never know what to say.
Reply 19
Clearly you've got the personality of a ****ing post then. :dontknow:

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