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im attractive yet get no girls..

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its not that
it's just that some girls are shy
including me
we shouldnt have to start the convos thats your job
lol
if you want a girl to like you give her compliments and make her laugh
dont get cocky..!
girls hate that

Is this some modern form of poetry?

Reply 61

princess271

Original post by ForKicks

Is this some modern form of poetry?

lol
what do u mean?

Reply 62

leahrascal

Original post by Racheld25

^ This

Girls have this issue too. Me, for instance. I'm told i'm pretty, but there aren't enough good looking single guys. Failing that, I just look younger than I am. So I guess that tends to put men off.

actually psychological studies have said that men prefer girls who look younger cause theres theoretically less of a chance that they've had children with another man/had sex loads lol... comes from cavemen times apparantly

Reply 63

ForKicks

Original post by princess271

lol
what do u mean?

The structure of your writing is rather...different. Surely you see that? lol

Reply 64

Kodias

Original post by twist.the.illusion

ewwwwwwwwwwwww, that's gross! Boys are like, SO disgusting! :gigg:

Disgusting? Suit yourself, I won't be asking you out to dinner then. :biggrin:

Reply 65

princess271

Original post by ForKicks

The structure of your writing is rather...different. Surely you see that? lol

seriously i dont understand what your saying
an i'm only 17
ur probably 25 or something lol

Reply 66

wilson_smith

Is it not obvious? Because you don't have any opportunities to 'get girls' - you barely socialise and supposedly have no friends. You have to meet girls to get girls you know.

Reply 67

wilson_smith

Original post by leahrascal

Should have put the word 'generally' in there really.

Reply 68

leahrascal

i did put the word apparantly in there though

Reply 69

maton_91

Pics or gtfo!

If you're told you're attractive then its your **** personality. End of.

PS Your Mummy doesn't count as a person telling you you're attractive!

Reply 70

ForKicks

Original post by princess271

seriously i dont understand what your saying
an i'm only 17
ur probably 25 or something lol

No worries
then.
I guess that when
you are older
you will change sentence
format.
:smile:

Reply 71

mirin?

Original post by Anonymous

i've been told many times before that im very good looking, i do get a lot of attention from girls just eye contact however i get no girls. im interested in getting to know girls and having casual sex. What is my problem i see so many guys at uni with different girls everyday, and i wouldn't say they're physically attractive. My personality is good im funny but it only ever comes out once i get comfortable with someone i.e. after speaking for at least 3/5 mins.
ive been at my uni for 3 years but i haven't made any friends.

also my daily routine is basically as follows. wake up, eat, internet, then go gym for 1 hour then leave come home. i only go into uni twice a week as i have no other lectures on all other days so i dont bother going in.

do you think my problem of not getting girls is related to my lifestyle? I think I should be at uni more often but being this late in the year and being a 3rd year i dont know where to go to pick up girls. where on campus do you got to pick up girls and how do you approach them? and what do you say?

i'd prefer female replys but guys can too.
thanks

I think its the lifestyle. I have exactly the same routine as you and the same problem. Don't really have any friends, but i have npd (narcissistic personality disorder) so thats contributory. I get a lot of interest from girls i'm not interested in though, but i think i'd need to flirt to pull the more attractive girls.

Reply 72

FrostyLemon

You either need to put yourself in situations where you can naturally talk to girls without them thinking you're 'chatting them up', so for example clubs, societies, house parties or start going up to girls in clubs/bars that you're interested in and try doing it that way. I'd stop worrying about 'getting girls' to be honest, if you just make sure you're having fun in your own life then you will eventually meet people any way.

(edited 13 years ago)

Reply 73

Player111

I just read ur 1st post and I felt that im reading my own life story. Me and u are exactly the same including the gym routine but how the hell do u have NO FRIENDS. Thats insane. I make friends easily, i also believe im decent lukn, and plus very toned, and can hold eye contact with a girl easily 2. But iv neva had a girlfriend because im very unsociable. Also im very picky wen choosing women. My advise 2 u and 2 me is that, be sociable, thats how all my mates pull all their women not cause they r great lukn but cause they go clubs alot. I dnt like clubs cause i dnt like drinking and smoking..

Reply 74

Jimbo1234

British girls like ugly guys as they are a safe bet.
Best bet is to move country.

Reply 75

sil3nt_cha0s

Original post by Jimbo1234

British girls like ugly guys as they are a safe bet.
Best bet is to move country.

what utter rubbish.

Reply 76

Jimbo1234

Original post by sil3nt_cha0s

what utter rubbish.

Not at all.
Look at the amount of British girls that are in bad shape and look at the type of guy they go for. Because of this they know they could not score with a hot guy or it would be hard and they are to insecure to deal with rejection so they go for a less attractive guy. I do not know any girl who would try to hit on the hottest guy in the room, but I know many girls who would hit on the second hottest or ugliest guy in the room.
Even if the girl is hot herself, she will go for an uglier guy as it is a 'sure thing' and she can guarantee that she has the upper hand in the relationship because the guy will be so grateful to be going out with someone hot that they will tolerate a lot of **** from them.

Reply 77

cttp_ngaf

Original post by MR-Sanshou

thanks man, i think your right about needing the liveliness from the get go but i dont think i can its not my personality type. do you think i can change that about myself?

Only with drugs, such as alcohol. If I drink I become a lot more forward and chatty, and occasionally get girls. I suspect MANY more people would be in your situation if they didn't drink - but of course everyone drinks.

I believe these broad behavioural types are pretty much set in stone, people like that have always been like that. I've always been quiet and reserved, my whole life.

What you need to do instead (apart from altering your personality with drugs, which is fine) is to put yourself in situations that you can work with, such as like I suggested trying to meet girls in places where you are "forced together" for work purposes or other reasons.

Reply 78

ForgetAboutIt.

The only advice you need is to make the first move and do not be afraid of rejection. Because at least then you have put yourself out there and shown a few girls that you are interested, I can assure you if you are even remotely good looking then you will pull. Oh yeah and don't forget to smile when you first approach! and if you do get turned down, do not take it as a critism just smile, forget about it and try with someone else.

Honestly this advice really works, just have a bit of confidence & suck up any knock downs. Good luck bro!