Guys: Taking a hint...

ouch :/

in the girl's defense i don't recall her ever saying or "hinting" that she was desirable nor irresistable

I didn't! Nor would I. It's just from his response to us sleepIng together and making out etc surely he would like me? And from this know I like him too?

well i wasn't exactly asking for the earth's male population's opinion or replies just maybe other people's ideas on the subject...

Oh and thanks for calling me a troll, so lovely when i was just curious about something, like you've never been curios in your life...


P.S. I haven't actually personally, verbally attacked anyone on here

this is my problem, i don't wanna make soo much effort it gets annoying so hope by dropping hints he'll make an effort to suggest things

no just your ex boyfriend who called you a dog and gave you the elbow or something..

You know, men suck at reading hints it's true, but then we also see the hints but aren't overly sure on the meaning so try to play it safe until we get something more concrete. It's just easier to be up front and honest about it all.

Incidentally, if this boy's not your boyfriend, in which case he needs to make more of an effort, how do you know he's not sending you a hint?

been called one or two things in my life but never a dog

you're right he's not my boyfriend, and i suppose you mean by him not suggesting things he's hinting he's not interested???

this could very well be true, but everything else he says compound that fact so i suppose you could i'm a little confused byt he situation and am in limbo about what's going on..

Must be a pretty girl :P

Welcome to our world when you rely on hints.

sometimes easier said than done when you want the other person to make an effort too so hint hoping they'll get the message and take action....

Why don't you just take the action though?

haha way to turn it back on myself

Heh, I hope it's not the reason he's acting the way he is, but it's nice to see you can now understand how we feel when we think we are getting hints, but aren't sure and want something a bit more definite. Don't forget, the man is nearly always expected to make the moves, which means we like to be pretty sure, or pretty damn confident, before we do anything. We spend our romantic lives navigating such hints and getting highly pissed off by them. Hence the old argument of:

"You men never understand us women!"
"That's because you women never tell us what you are thinking!"

Personally, I'm in an annoying situation which involves hints and most of it's cause I don't have the balls to go up and talk to the girl in English cause I have a hang-up of talking to Icelanders in English when I speak their language, but I'm rather shy, especially when speaking Icelandic, so. She's smiled at me, we've poked each other on facebook, but nyah, it's all hints and vagueness and just ugh.

Sometimes we don't always want to be the ones to suggest going out, or doing something though, start to feel a bit of a pest after a while....

for instance meeting up, it'd be nice if sometimes they took it upon themselves to ask if you fancy meeting up instead of always being the one to suggest it...

sounds bad

Nyah, not really.

If a girl wants to get a hint through to me, they need to write it on a brick and chuck it at my head.

At the very least.