Does my girlfriend still want me?

Hi thank you for your reply!

I've asked her if there is anything wrong, but she has told me she promises everything is fine. She said she'll try get a different pill to see if that works, but that was 3 weeks ago.

Hi thank you for your reply!

I've asked her if there is anything wrong, but she has told me she promises everything is fine. She said she'll try get a different pill to see if that works, but that was 3 weeks ago.

Same thing in my relationship but I am in your gf's position. I also blame the pill. I don't know why I have lost a lot of interest, I just don't want to a lot of the time, I can't be bothered, I'd rather just cuddle, I don't know why it is, and I hate it, I really wish I wanted to more. My bf asks the same question as you have, but my only answer is "the pill" because I really don't know what else it could be.

She probably feels similar, she wishes it was different, but when it comes to it she just can't be bothered, doesn't feel like it and has no energy.

In my position, there is absolutely nothing wrong with our relationship, I love my boyfriend to bits and he loves me the same. Just my sex drive keeps going down and down, it makes me sad It's very likely it is similar in your relationship. Don't worry, she does still want you.

If anyone knows how to "cure" this as such, then I'm open to suggestions (the only suggestion I'm not open to is a change of pill, I spent a year sorting out my pill again after I started getting migraines, then I bled for like 9 months [not fun] and now it's finally settled...I can't go through all that again. I have been on like 4 different pills before anyway, had a low sex drive on them all)

Are you actually my GF? lol

You have said things that she says. For example, she wishes it was different and that she has no energy to do anything. I even tell her i'd just like to give her pleasure as i'm a man, and i love her. It's not all about me.

But we never get going, so to speak

...we had a fantastic time when we were both 15 and 16...

The only part that reasured me that you aren't my GF LOL! Scary!


I do hope you find a cure (obviously) i'm going to just take things very slow and see how things go from now on. - Let me know how you get on :-)

Haha yeah, we have been together 5 years

Yeah I will totally let you know, maybe it will help you and your gf, also let me know if she sees improvement!

That's cool! We've been together just under 2 years! :-)


I will let you know. I am hoping it's the pill, but i don't want her to get an other pill that might give her headaches etc

Side effects are relative. The pill I went on had no effect on me at all but for others it can encourage weight fluctuations, headaches etc. It's pretty much a gambling game with the pill.

I'd sit back a bit, bro. Let her sort of come back to that side of things when she's ready, maybe? Or do it less, etc.

Still, that'd just be me. 'Dreaming' had a good idea with talking about it, but don't make it sound desperate; that you're only thinking about the sex side of things. Or she'll think that's all you want her for and it'll fall apart.

But yeah, that's what I'd do.

That's cool! We've been together just under 2 years! :-)


I will let you know. I am hoping it's the pill, but i don't want her to get an other pill that might give her headaches etc

I would say 100% the pill but possibly could be other causes as well?

When I had the implant put in I didn't even want my boyfriend to touch me! - we nearly broke up because of it (also caused lots of arguments because I was so hormonal)

Now I have a hormone-free coil and I am fineeeeeeee (+horny)

So an implant is just as bad on the sex drive???

And you now have a coil and that is fine??

It's ok, I really want my sex drive back now, I'm fed up, I need advice from girls with experience of sorting out this situation! x