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The truth about asian girls (a small note on the guys as well)

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Original post by HumanNature1992
Im both Pakistani and Indian and I catch em all like Pokemon, except for gangstarrr Asian girls


The ones that start gesticulating, like a black rapper from the hood, when you ask a question? lol
(edited 13 years ago)
Reply 41
Original post by goddogit

Original post by goddogit
so many white guys keep posting 'oh i like her, but shes pakistani' and 'do indian chicks get attracted to white guys' and similar **** to no end. so here's your answer.

Pakistani girls

* 99% of the pakistani chicks are more family oriented and hence prefer guys of a similar race. lets make it clear that they DONT have problems being friends with other races though.

*some dont mind getting into short term relationships.they get married to a pakistani in the end.

*VERY very few pakistanis end up with people from other cultures. if they do it, its mostly while going against their parents' wishes, which eprsonally i find very cool. it reflects a lot of inner strength and confidence and their ability to love so purely.

Indian girls

*there are 3 types really-
-she is not into white guys at all. brown is the way to go. be friends with such chicks, youre not getting anywhere closer.

- she is into white guys, but again, like the pakistani girls is very traditional and might date white people, but wont end up with them. most girls make it clear in the beginning before getting involved. if you're serious about her, you might want to subtly ask her.

- she's got an open-minded family OR she cant be too arsed, love is love regardless of race. she will be okay to be in serious committed relationships. my own sister is married to this lovely guy from nottingham and my parents lurvve him and think they're oh so cute together.

Indian boys

*again there are three kinds

-born and brought up in england- they're pretty english in behavior, but seem to prefer indian chicks.

- north indian guys comign from india- they're mostly very crude and dont mind having some fun with english girls, but trust me, its almost NEVER more than that. theyre parents will cut their d*cks off and banish them from all their wealth.

- south indian guys coming from india- most prefer indians. but some like white girls and theyre very genuine about it. theyre the nicest indian guys, very kind and courteous. if they love you they WILL ask to marry you. beware of the odd douche bags though. you can tell from the way they treat you and talk to you.

feel free to quote me while asking questions or making comments.

AND before you judge me and think i might be biased,

im an indian hindu, brought up as catholic and have mostly muslim friends. ive got more pakistani friends than indians. ALL my best friends at uni are white and i have a white brother in law.


Absolutely awesome post dude! superbly well done! I am glad South Indian dudes have a good rep! :wink:
Reply 42
OP spends his spare time doing his shoelaces over and over again.
Original post by silent ninja
The ones that start gesticulating, like a black rapper from the hood, when you ask a question? lol


Lol you know the type:wink:
Original post by SoulMan
What about there thoughts on us mixed race guys? Jeez talk about discrimination! haha :wink:


I think you mean half-cast.

dirty mudblood.

:ahee:
Reply 45
Original post by goddogit
so many white guys keep posting 'oh i like her, but shes pakistani' and 'do indian chicks get attracted to white guys' and similar **** to no end. so here's your answer.

Pakistani girls

* 99% of the pakistani chicks are more family oriented and hence prefer guys of a similar race. lets make it clear that they DONT have problems being friends with other races though.

*some dont mind getting into short term relationships.they get married to a pakistani in the end.

*VERY very few pakistanis end up with people from other cultures. if they do it, its mostly while going against their parents' wishes, which eprsonally i find very cool. it reflects a lot of inner strength and confidence and their ability to love so purely.

Indian girls

*there are 3 types really-
-she is not into white guys at all. brown is the way to go. be friends with such chicks, youre not getting anywhere closer.

- she is into white guys, but again, like the pakistani girls is very traditional and might date white people, but wont end up with them. most girls make it clear in the beginning before getting involved. if you're serious about her, you might want to subtly ask her.

- she's got an open-minded family OR she cant be too arsed, love is love regardless of race. she will be okay to be in serious committed relationships. my own sister is married to this lovely guy from nottingham and my parents lurvve him and think they're oh so cute together.

Indian boys

*again there are three kinds

-born and brought up in england- they're pretty english in behavior, but seem to prefer indian chicks.

- north indian guys comign from india- they're mostly very crude and dont mind having some fun with english girls, but trust me, its almost NEVER more than that. theyre parents will cut their d*cks off and banish them from all their wealth.

- south indian guys coming from india- most prefer indians. but some like white girls and theyre very genuine about it. theyre the nicest indian guys, very kind and courteous. if they love you they WILL ask to marry you. beware of the odd douche bags though. you can tell from the way they treat you and talk to you.

feel free to quote me while asking questions or making comments.

AND before you judge me and think i might be biased,

im an indian hindu, brought up as catholic and have mostly muslim friends. ive got more pakistani friends than indians. ALL my best friends at uni are white and i have a white brother in law.




thx for answering this horrible q
Original post by goddogit

Indian boys

- north indian guys comign from india- they're mostly very crude and dont mind having some fun with english girls, but trust me, its almost NEVER more than that. theyre parents will cut their d*cks off and banish them from all their wealth.


Ahhh, thanks. This has explained a few things for me. Really good post, OP. Can you do some more on guys?

What about Pakistani men born and raised in the UK, who retain some Asian customs, but on the whole are fairly Westernised? They've lived independently for a long time and are a bit reserved.

And what do Asians think of Chinese? Same as white or different?
(edited 13 years ago)
Original post by silent ninja
I don't get people like you. How can you not be attracted to a particular nationality or race, point blank, like a blanket statement?

I could say I don't like X race, but I'd be the biggest fat liar in the world because there will definitely be some that are attractive-- if you're attracted to the opposite sex, it's inevitable!!


I can honestly say that I've never been attracted to a guy of a different race, mixed race yes, but not another race altogether. I can see why others may find other races attractive, but I personally have never been attracted to them. I have no idea why though, just a personal preference?
Reply 48
i dont care much about skin colour, it has to be the religion. same religion or no relationship whatsoever.
Original post by n1r4v
Are these your credentials validating the rest of your post?


As someone from tower hamlets who has had the "would you ever date" talk with my Asian friends. mostly Bengalis and pakistanis. I can confirm base on these discussion that everything said in that post is 100 true. And I've also observed pretty much everything the OP has said occurring. its a generalisation which just happens to be true........ in most cases.
Reply 50
Do you know of any Indian or Pakistani girls who might be in your words a number 2 then, feel free to tell them to PM me :-)
x


Original post by goddogit
so many white guys keep posting 'oh i like her, but shes pakistani' and 'do indian chicks get attracted to white guys' and similar **** to no end. so here's your answer.

Pakistani girls

* 99% of the pakistani chicks are more family oriented and hence prefer guys of a similar race. lets make it clear that they DONT have problems being friends with other races though.

*some dont mind getting into short term relationships.they get married to a pakistani in the end.

*VERY very few pakistanis end up with people from other cultures. if they do it, its mostly while going against their parents' wishes, which eprsonally i find very cool. it reflects a lot of inner strength and confidence and their ability to love so purely.

Indian girls

*there are 3 types really-
-she is not into white guys at all. brown is the way to go. be friends with such chicks, youre not getting anywhere closer.

- she is into white guys, but again, like the pakistani girls is very traditional and might date white people, but wont end up with them. most girls make it clear in the beginning before getting involved. if you're serious about her, you might want to subtly ask her.

- she's got an open-minded family OR she cant be too arsed, love is love regardless of race. she will be okay to be in serious committed relationships. my own sister is married to this lovely guy from nottingham and my parents lurvve him and think they're oh so cute together.

Indian boys

*again there are three kinds

-born and brought up in england- they're pretty english in behavior, but seem to prefer indian chicks.

- north indian guys comign from india- they're mostly very crude and dont mind having some fun with english girls, but trust me, its almost NEVER more than that. theyre parents will cut their d*cks off and banish them from all their wealth.

- south indian guys coming from india- most prefer indians. but some like white girls and theyre very genuine about it. theyre the nicest indian guys, very kind and courteous. if they love you they WILL ask to marry you. beware of the odd douche bags though. you can tell from the way they treat you and talk to you.

feel free to quote me while asking questions or making comments.

AND before you judge me and think i might be biased,

im an indian hindu, brought up as catholic and have mostly muslim friends. ive got more pakistani friends than indians. ALL my best friends at uni are white and i have a white brother in law.
Reply 51
Original post by goddogit
so many white guys keep posting 'oh i like her, but shes pakistani' and 'do indian chicks get attracted to white guys' and similar **** to no end. so here's your answer.

Pakistani girls

* 99% of the pakistani chicks are more family oriented and hence prefer guys of a similar race. lets make it clear that they DONT have problems being friends with other races though.

*some dont mind getting into short term relationships.they get married to a pakistani in the end.

*VERY very few pakistanis end up with people from other cultures. if they do it, its mostly while going against their parents' wishes, which eprsonally i find very cool. it reflects a lot of inner strength and confidence and their ability to love so purely.

Indian girls

*there are 3 types really-
-she is not into white guys at all. brown is the way to go. be friends with such chicks, youre not getting anywhere closer.

- she is into white guys, but again, like the pakistani girls is very traditional and might date white people, but wont end up with them. most girls make it clear in the beginning before getting involved. if you're serious about her, you might want to subtly ask her.

- she's got an open-minded family OR she cant be too arsed, love is love regardless of race. she will be okay to be in serious committed relationships. my own sister is married to this lovely guy from nottingham and my parents lurvve him and think they're oh so cute together.

Indian boys

*again there are three kinds

-born and brought up in england- they're pretty english in behavior, but seem to prefer indian chicks.

- north indian guys comign from india- they're mostly very crude and dont mind having some fun with english girls, but trust me, its almost NEVER more than that. theyre parents will cut their d*cks off and banish them from all their wealth.

- south indian guys coming from india- most prefer indians. but some like white girls and theyre very genuine about it. theyre the nicest indian guys, very kind and courteous. if they love you they WILL ask to marry you. beware of the odd douche bags though. you can tell from the way they treat you and talk to you.

feel free to quote me while asking questions or making comments.

AND before you judge me and think i might be biased,

im an indian hindu, brought up as catholic and have mostly muslim friends. ive got more pakistani friends than indians. ALL my best friends at uni are white and i have a white brother in law.



firstly, im indigenous indian catholic (latina), where are all the cute brown catholics? im the only one i know? if you are veggie or dont drink or dont gamble , do you get alot of white folk asking 'is it religious?' do you get loads of white folk thinking you are muslim? once i was in church singing at xmas in the choir, and a white lady who had seen me in the church choir for 3 years said to me 'so, do you celebrate christmas? ' :rolleyes:

also think you got the north and south indians the wrong way round, but otherwise awesome and honest post. i expected some uber PC TSR rubbish saying "everyone can be attracted to all races, colour means nothing, we are all the same and can all love each other equally" :smile:

also as an indigenous american indian girl i wuld add - im mainly attracted to brown dudes, have never dated a white dude. i dont drink, gamble, clubbing, or have sex before marriage, am religious, dont eat meat etc and white dudes dont respect that at all. they generally are sued to having sex on the third date, expect a girl to eat meat and get drunk regularly. they dont look for marriage that much, do not believe in God, and expect to live with a girl unmarried for several years. these ideas are not compatible to me. also alot of white dudes fetishise non white girls saying 'wow your skin colour is a turn on' or 'latin girls are hot' when the only latin girls they know of are shakira and penelope cruz, they think all latin girls are up for easy sex with any dude adn all have tan skin, blond hair and brown eyes. they say 'brazil is the place for single men'. this stereotyping makes me very ill and reminds me of my heratige of slavery. so i avoid white men mostly, though i do think some are very cute and might consider dating one if i could see a fututre in it and the above were not a problem.
i quite like antonio banderas, romain duris, carlos ponce, olivier martinez. if those white dudes approached me i would definately think they were hot.

also in your OP you missed out the cultural impact of interracial dating. if an ethnic girl walks by with a white giuy, all ethinics especially old ones will look daggers at her and whisper nasty things implying since she has a white dude, she must be some sort of sl*t living together unmarried - she must be non traditional, drink, have boyfirneds, wear revealing clothes, not pray that much etc. whereas if an ethnic guy is dating a white girl, they assume he is having some fun but it isnt serious and he will eventually marry a good indian girl when he is older :rolleyes:
(edited 13 years ago)
Reply 52
Original post by Denny Crane
As someone from tower hamlets who has had the "would you ever date" talk with my Asian friends. mostly Bengalis and pakistanis. I can confirm base on these discussion that everything said in that post is 100 true. And I've also observed pretty much everything the OP has said occurring. its a generalisation which just happens to be true........ in most cases.


what can you tell me about Tamil guys?

im conservative catholic latina/indigenous indian mixed race lady. my ex is 40 y/o unemployed busker who is half white and half tamil. he is divorced and lives with his parents. his ex wife was tamil indian and very traditional.

i didnt want us to live together or have relations until we were married. but he secretly moved a white girl in with him who is bisexual, drunk, not at all traditional. do you thnk he will turn around and marry me in a few years and is with her only for fun? i very much want to be his wife and have many babies with him. he was my first and only boyfriend also.
For me,I do whatever I want to for love I guess.Religion or culture is DEFINITELY not going to get in the way anytime soon,atleast on my end :smile:
Reply 54
Original post by No Future
Ahhh, thanks. This has explained a few things for me. Really good post, OP. Can you do some more on guys?

What about Pakistani men born and raised in the UK, who retain some Asian customs, but on the whole are fairly Westernised? They've lived independently for a long time and are a bit reserved.

And what do Asians think of Chinese? Same as white or different?


from what ive seen, they mostly prefer pakistani girls itself, like the modernised british pakistani girls. some dont mind indian girls! :smile:

asian (from the subcontinent) girls are generally not attracted to chinese boys. imo its more about the language gap than anything else because ive seen many indian girls with chinese looking guys, some mixed raced, who were brought up in england
Original post by goddogit
from what ive seen, they mostly prefer pakistani girls itself, like the modernised british pakistani girls. some dont mind indian girls! :smile:

asian (from the subcontinent) girls are generally not attracted to chinese boys. imo its more about the language gap than anything else because ive seen many indian girls with chinese looking guys, some mixed raced, who were brought up in england


I meant, how do Asian men regard Chinese women?
Reply 56
Original post by No Future
I meant, how do Asian men regard Chinese women?


lets just say they dont mind asian girls for friends, but theyd have to be pretty damn special to take it any further :wink:

(asians are probably the most racist people in their heads. we just dont voice it out much and arent very offensive about it because we think we're a minority) :frown:
Reply 57
It must have been tough travelling around the UK and asking every British Asian person their sexual preferences.....
Reply 58
Original post by No Future
I meant, how do Asian men regard Chinese women?


I'm Asian and find many, many Chinese girls attrractive.

My family would have no problem with me marrying a Chinese girl. With the emphasis on family, education, respect for elders and thousands of year old traditions, the Chinese culture is much closer to our culture than white British culture.
Reply 59
Original post by goddogit
truueee :biggrin: i think the exact same thing about white guys. im indian, never lived in india much though. i had an indian boyfriend it lasted like 6 months. and now im with this amazing man who happens to be english and im, well in love. dont tell him that though, he has deep seated committment issues :P


There is a FOURTH type of Indian girl that you didn't mention. These are the ones that exclusively date white guys. They live away from home, have rebelled against their family and culture and pretty much only have white friends and date white guys. There are lot of those around.

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