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Since in a relationship, I have:

Hi everyone,

I'm conducting a study on pornography, and would be interested in knowing your views on its usage within a relationship. The poll is unfortunately restricted to males; however, views from both genders are welcomed in the discussion below.

Topics for discussion would include reasons for consumption, reasons for change in consumption, and girlfriends' views on the matter (which are valued highly).

Hope you can help me and thanks!
(edited 13 years ago)

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Guaglio
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Please don't be put off by commenting or voting; voting is anonymous, and I posted it in this forum specifically so you may take advantage of the anonymous posting feature.
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haha. yes. but let's try and keep it serious :tongue:
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DumpOrStay?
"let's try and keep it serious"

Good luck LAD. :yy:

Anyway, I will give an honest answer because i'm nice :flutter: Yes, I watch porn. Not sure how many hours or whatever, but every few days because i'm in an LDR (so get sex about once a month :sad:). Anyway, when I do play tug of war with my peppered steak, I try and last it out, so watch several episodes of porn and everytime I feel like i'm going to shoot at the end of one porn episode, I stop masturbating, keep the semen inside and quickly move onto the next one with a small break. The build up and anticipation makes my orgasm so intense that by the end of the 4th-5th porn, when I finally ejaculate, I can't stop breathing and it's so powerful and I release so much fluid...it's just so much better than a quickie; it's mind-blowing :sogood:

Brb. :moon:
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Most guys will still watch porn when in a relationship, and most girls know/accept this.
I'm in an LDR, but I have cut my porn usage, not by any request of the girl. But because it's not as appealing to me now!
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Original post by DumpOrStay?
Yes, I watch porn. Not sure how many hours or whatever, but every few days because i'm in an LDR (so get sex about once a month :sad:)


so if you were not in a LDR, what would it change?
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Original post by Guaglio
so if you were not in a LDR, what would it change?


Well i'd see her more often, so i'd **** her more often, hence I wouldn't need to watch porn as much, if at all :dontknow:
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I honestly don't care if my OH wants to watch porn or not! I've never understood the problem some people have with porn, personally.
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Original post by *Dreaming*
Most guys will still watch porn when in a relationship, and most girls know/accept this.


actually, it appears at least from online discussions on the matter that many girls do know this but do not accept it. it makes them feel insecure and doubt the fidelity of their partner. it is this issue that would be interesting to discuss as well.
Original post by mckinnon94
I'm in an LDR, but I have cut my porn usage, not by any request of the girl. But because it's not as appealing to me now!


This too, at times. But it does fluctuate. If i'm more bored and there's not been much communication, i'll watch more porn, if i'm keeping myself busy, and communicating lots with my gf, I won't feel the need to.
Original post by Charlski
I honestly don't care if my OH wants to watch porn or not! I've never understood the problem some people have with porn, personally.


As long as he doesn't, bend you over pianos and lift your leg on the stools and forcefully do anal and call in 12 of his black mates with after all of them finish in your mouth, throw $1000 dollars in your knickers and walk out, eyy? :wink:

:tong:
Original post by Guaglio
actually, it appears at least from online discussions on the matter that many girls do know this but do not accept it. it makes them feel insecure and doubt the fidelity of their partner. it is this issue that would be interesting to discuss as well.


Yes I know, that's why I said most girls know and some will accept it. These girls in a way need to get over it, porn is just a thing that guys do.
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Original post by Guaglio
actually, it appears at least from online discussions on the matter that many girls do know this but do not accept it. it makes them feel insecure and doubt the fidelity of their partner. it is this issue that would be interesting to discuss as well.


I hate it when girls do this, it gives us all a bad name. "OH NOEZ HE'S WATCHING PORN ZOMG!!1!1" :facepalm2:

I don't know why so many people have such an issue with it, personally I think it can be fun to explore together. I wouldn't give a toss if I was dating someone/in a serious relationship with them and they watched porn, and I would hope they would afford me the same. People watch porn, get over it. Having problems with a guy or girl watching porn is just immature in my opinion.

Edit: LOL at the negs from insecur girls who can't handle their boyfriends watching porn. :awesome:
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Original post by .Ali.
I wouldn't give a toss

:teehee:

OP, I just carry on the same I think, if anything maybe reduce it a bit because there's just no need to if I see the girl often.
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Original post by Funkss!
:teehee:

I just carry on the same I think, if anything maybe reduce it a bit because there's just no need to if I see the girl often.


LOL bad choice of words on my part there it would seem. :tongue:
I probably watch more porn than any of my boyfriends have.
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Not in a relationship atm, but when I was, I maintained the amount of porn I watched for ****ing rather than reducing it despite having regular-ish sex. Even now with casual sex (not strict relationships/girlfriends) I haven't reduced it.

In fact the only thing that changes with a sex buddy/girlfriend/ONS is that I imagine the pornstars to be them... isthatbad
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Well, if they're around then it generally reduces my watching of it (unless we're watching together) but when I'm alone it has no influence.

My sex drive seems to put most people to shame.
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I'm in a LDR. I think I look at porn less only by the virtue that I don't look at it when I'm with her because I can have sex with her instead. But it hasn't been reduced that much.

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