My boyfriend is very stressed at the moment. He doesn't have as much uni work as he makes out and he has a tendency to over-react, compare himself to others too much and also to stress excessively. I understand this and I'm there for him. Even when on the inside I'm thinking just man up and get on with it instead of wasting time stressing.
Problem is, he's wrapped up in his own little world. Moaning to me about his stress and his problems, rarely remembering that I have a lot of work aswell. He hardly bothers to ask me if i'm ok or what I'm up to or how my work's going. I just get text after text about what he's been doing and what work he has left to do and so and so has written more than him and what does that mean? It's exhausting and I feel like his mum sometimes rather than his girlfriend.
Even just now, he's text me asking if i'm around uni (first text of the day) i reply that i'm not, why whats up. he replies oh nothing just had time to kill. hanging out with someone else instead now.
And thats it. No how are you, no did you get your essay finished, nothing. I cba replying again, not that he's given me anything to reply to. May sound like I'm being dramatic but he's like that constantly. It's like he doesn't care tbh. I've had an ear infection for a couple of days now and haven't even really had the chance to bring it up so he doesn't even know. What can I do?