if a guy is looking for marriage material girls would that freak girls out lol ?

Fiiinally, a guy who actually admits that this is what he wants! . No I wouldn't find it wierd or off putting at all, it's kind of what I'd prefer. I don't see the point of having a casual relationship with someone, I'd much rather get into a relationship with someone who I felt I could be really serious with.

Pretty much.

I don't really see that changing, either.

Yes depending on what toothpaste you use. Do you use colgate?

Yep. Do I get extra points for using mouthwash too?

Nope, mouthwashes are gimmicks. Do you drink coffee?

lets just say i dont like short time or casual relationship.i will only be with someone if i see their is a future. like i am not saying getting marrid straight away but like having a plain. we date now and then get to know each other for couple of years and settle down. Is this like too upfront lol. whats the point of having a proper relationship and putting lot of effort and sacrifice. where at the end there is no future

No, that is the type of guy most girls want !!!
I think you have now made every girl on TSR want to marry you haha

You are joking me right? Because alot of guys are simpletons like this who do want to settle down soon etc. but then get shocked when they enter uni life to see what reality is really like. A guy's perspective of what his chances are to finding the right girlfriend change alot during university during which time the girls show themselves are promiscious willing to have any short term relationship to lose their (apparently overdue) virginity. Hence the guy adapts to this shocking society. Alot of guys change themselves by the situation they are faced with, that is, being a nice guy will mean he will finish last.

Not all girls are promiscious and enter a relationship in order to lose their virginity. Infact majority of girls i know arent like that....where are you from?

A lot of people enter a relationship without knowing whether it will be a long term or short term...and thats normal and theres nothing wrong with it. You cant expect to know how the relationship will change before you enter it.

OP..if you dont kow the person well enough...then it's normal to be freaked out...why would you even consider thinking of getting married to someone you dont really know well enough. I guess everyone has some sort of life plan, theres no point thinking about it with every other person you meet.

There comes a time in a man's life when he wants grandchildren without wanting to be a father first.

It's only when you get the guy(s?) ... realise they want freedom.

You need to find yourself a christian