Is being a natural flirt a bad thing on a guy?

It's difficult to say as people can misconstrue something as being flirtatious when really you're just being friendly. But wheres the problem? If you like someone, make it obvious you like them. You can't literally treat all females the same - that would just be weird...

I'm like that but all of my friends know this fact about me so I don't really see it as weird. Of course there is a difference between the general flirting with everyone and the people you like i.e. you tend to be a lot more forward in the flirting manner when you are with someone who actually have feelings for.

I don't see why you should need to change. If you like someone, make a point to tell them, that way you aren't sending mixed signals or allowing them to assume that their just another friend

Not necessarily.

My boyfriend's an unintentional natural flirt. He's friendly to everyone, compliments them, etc. etc. and some people interpret this as him flirting with them when he's not. (Trust me, when he actually tries flirting...well...)

He's even got his own gay fan club

So how do you guys think i should approach females who i like because i don't want to come on too strong as that's creepy and ruins the mystery of it all but i want her to know she's liked/special at the same time?

thanks for the help guys!

So how do you guys think i should approach females who i like because i don't want to come on too strong as that's creepy and ruins the mystery of it all but i want her to know she's liked/special at the same time?

thanks for the help guys!

Anonymous I think you being a 'natural flirt' is quite subjective. Some girls might see you as being a very 'touchy friendly' person but then some girls ofcourse will see you as a player. Serious advice

make some defined boundaries. Like how you WONT behave around a girl thats a friend. I am a 'natural flirt' and to avoid upsetting people I make defined boundaries that way if Im with a guy I am actually interested in its obvious to him and everyone else, I like him MORE.

Be more persistent with her, not too much though. Pay a little more attention to her, what she is saying, how she looks and give her personal compliments, make that extra bit of effort to see her and when you do see her, make sure she knows you remember your previous conversations. Give her pure eye contact, genuine smile and let her know that you enjoy her company. Be honest about your feelings when the right time comes.

Be a little more persistent with someone you like...just a little though, you don't want to creep her out. Pay her more personal compliments, ask her about herself, look interested when she's talking. When you see her again, mention something from your previous conversation(s) that you've remembered. Genuinely smile at her. Maintain eye contact with her just that little bit longer.