What makes a girl intimidating?? :D

'you don't have to come and confess, were looking for you, we gon' find you' know all the words to it, legendary youtube video

That's fair enough, but some of us do actually like a pair on a girl...so to speak. **** I used to date a girl that shaved her head regularly just for the fun of it. Although she may have also been borderline psychotic

You sound like a keeper!

That's fair enough, but some of us do actually like a pair on a girl...so to speak. **** I used to date a girl that shaved her head regularly just for the fun of it. Although she may have also been borderline psychotic

So what if you found out later she wasn't sexually experienced as you thought, and she was a virgin would that make her less intimidating.

You sound like a keeper!

I'm considered 'intimidating' by some boys. But I'm okay with that, as I don't date little boys, I'm more interested in men.

Why I'm intimidating:
I have a very dominant persona
I'm extremely outgoing and confident
I'm quite intelligent which puts some morons off
I'm relatively high maintenance
I have ridiculously high standards
I go for men who are older than me
I'm extremely strong willed

Ah well, being 'intimidating' weeds out the pussies.

I would take issue in your "most normal men" ;-) Most teenagers/younger men? Maybe. But by the time you're talking long-term adult relationships most people (male AND female) have realised that it takes equality to make things work long-term. Having a relationship with someone who is "toned-down" to the point they are uncomfortable asserting themselves to their actual partner? Misery-making, to both parties. The quieter partner feels bossed, and quite often reacts passive-aggressively. Might have worked 70 years ago, not so much now.

Met many girls that are exactly like what you described:

Selfish Not when in a relationship, can be at other times.
StubbornDepends, can be.
Developed early/believe they're "grown up"Lol, I do actually act older than my age, because I don't find what regular teens do to be 'fun'
Know it all, stuck upDepends on your view, I'd say I was 'knowledgeable'
BIG listening problemNah, I'm actually a good listener
Spoilt rottenSome would say so, some wouldn't. That's relative
Attractive manner/maybe above average looks Not going to lie, I'm not ugly.
Get what they want no matter the consequences to others Not really.
+all the things you had in your list

Im sure you're nothing like that and if you are you won't know it or believe it, its just the image your list gave me

Some are right, some aren't. (see red) Not everyone's cup of tea, some like it some don't.

Those high maintenance always done up chicks ..they're probably intimidating to regular girls too

Don't follow re: the sarcasm?- and I should hope not re: babes doll-snatch!

He's right to suggest a high degree of correlation between some of the attributes you both gave, though this is not limited to women as such

Add "fun/sociable" to that list. I think you misunderstood the listening problem part lol

They're just not human! I don't know where they find the energy from

Guys what makes a girl intimidating?
I don't mean holding a butchers knife or negative things. If you liked her but ignored her but do that staring thing that you guys do "yes we know you do it out of the corner of our eyes"

Girls has a guy ever been intimidated by you before?
Have you found out later on or by a friend that a guy liked you even though they never told you.

tl;dr version

Guys intimidated by girls?
Girls has a guy been intimidated by you?

Haha, my thoughts exactly.

Lol I'd describe myself as a 'sociable' person...

How did I?



It's not that difficult. I don't get girls who say that lol, I mean even if I'm not doing anything that day, I still do my hair & makeup and wear a nice outfit. It's just me. Looking a certain way is a constant thing, not an act for when I go outside. Why would it take a lot of energy?

Rarely do what you're told/advised

Glad I could help Invoice for psychological counselling is in the mail lol

If it's a bad thing depends on your standpoint. Most 'normal' men do not like these traits in women, as they can be quite intimidating, and they prefer more 'toned-down', feminine women. Equally strong/dominant men might enjoy seeing themselves being mirrored by you, but in a relation there would be a lot of friction. Often strong women end up with wussies, who they can boss around - and usually the guys don't even mind; those relationships actually work lol
In career terms, these traits are absolutely fantastic. People will take you more seriously, listen more closely, and you will more likely get your way.

As a slightly older woman than you are -- no, not at all.

You're about to embark on a world which has a lot more in it than relationships, and there will be people who will try and intimidate you, especially as a female, if you're perceived as an easy target. (Not JUST females I hasten to add, I've had to step in front of my own partner on occasion when people saw someone who was Just Too Damn Nice).

There is nothing at all wrong with letting your body language declare you to be a guy's equal, and the guys who are intimidated by it are honestly the ones you probably would want to stay away from in the first place as they want to be In Charge of the relationship. At best, if you're not naturally a stand-back person you'll find that relationship frustrating, at worst, that might well not be a guy who wants someone easy to control for a not so nice reason. Neither of those make for healthy relationships.

That said, do make sure that if you do end up dating someone slightly quieter you don't end up steamrollering them. Consciously stopping and going "Hey, what would you like in this?" is a GOOD habit to get into in any relationship.

Personally this would be much more of a turn on for me.

Girls has a guy ever been intimidated by you before?

Have you found out later on or by a friend that a guy liked you even though they never told you