Guys:What do you think of shy girl vs confident girls?

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I see, we are interpreting confident as being a different thing. You are interpreting it as self-confidence, I am interpreting it as being at ease/talkative in social situations, hence why I don't think you can by shy and confident at the same time. So no we are not saying the same thing.

Well, no, of course not if you define confidence as "being at ease/talkative in social situations", but that is not what it means. Hence my original post.

So do shy girls seem too unapproachable so guys usually go for confident girls?

Ok my description is bad...what I mean is someone can appear to be at ease/sure of them self, so they can seem like a confident person, in which case they wouldn't be classed as shy. Sure they might not actually be self-confident, but I thought the OP was talking about the appearance of confidence rather than actual self-confidence ('the confident/loud ones where they act the same around everyone really what you see is what you get and they're more outgoing'). Doesn't matter anyway, I'm bored of this conversation.

Well yes, and the point I made was that the appearance of confidence is not the same as actual confidence. I was disagreeing with this premise that was set forth in the original post.

Ahah, very interesting topic.
Shy people can get crazy sometimes when they get confident. I like girls who are like this, a little shy, who don't talk to loudly in public, but that can occasionaly can get crazy during parties.
I am actually like this.
What i just don't want, is being embarassed because of my girl speaking hyper loudly and being watched by everybody around in a bad way.
but shy and confident are not opposit notions, are they? In french I would more say 'introverti' and 'extraverti' but I don't find those words in English.

I like shy girls, but please shy girls, go out and go crazy and i'll be even happyier.

What do you think of shy girls vs confident girls?
Would you rather date someone who is shy or confident?

A shy person that is shy around quite a few people but when they are with you they are different and completely themselves.

or the confident/loud ones where they act the same around everyone really what you see is what you get and they're more outgoing.

Would it intimidate guys if a girl was shy? Just wondering I know most confident girls find it easier to find boyfriends and it's harder for shy girls. I've found that myself as I'm quite a shy person and know others who are shy also find it harder.