What is the worst thing an ex can/has ever said to you?

The classic one that ex-girlfriends will pull out (usually in-front of as many people as possible) is the old "you have a small d***". Regardless of it's truth, people will believe it because you either say "yes" (in which case you agree) or say "no" (and people presume you are embarrassed and lying).

Unfortunately there's no comeback other than "more like you have a bucket!"

Good for him

They don't
Because it was my first boyfriend too, and before we broke up I thought we were doing great, so when we broke up I was a wreck, and it was he was replaced by an entirely different person- it still confuses me when people chnage like that in matter of weeks/days

completely true...

when things go south they change so quickly...like a flick of a switch....completely the opposite of what used to be them....it still confuses the hell out of me as to how someone can change overnight...after everything...

The other comeback is to whip it out and prove her wrong

"But... But I need you."

Tops any insult, any time. Breaks my damn heart thinking about it.

Would any guy like to shed some light on this? Why is it (some) guys run the other way when problems arise? Why can they not sit down with their partner and try and solve them?

And how can someone's feelings change overnight or such a short space of time? This really confuses me

Fair play to you. I didn't mean that as a "why did you ever go for him in the first place" type remark, just genuinely shocked at how much of a knob he sounds.

Would any guy like to shed some light on this? Why is it (some) guys run the other way when problems arise? Why can they not sit down with their partner and try and solve them?

And how can someone's feelings change overnight or such a short space of time? This really confuses me

One of my exes broke up with me claiming we were better off as friends.
He was cheating on me with a 14 year old and I didn't find this out until later. :|

I don't get it :/

She cheated on me. I'd tried to give it another go but just couldn't trust her. Told her I couldn't stay with her, and she said that.

It was movie-perfect. Big, tear filled eyes looking up at me, and complete incomprehension in her voice.

You can scream at me as much as you like, but if you let me know that I've hurt you, then I can't take it.

Oh wow, how old are both of you? To touch on an ironic moment, my last ex is 17 and I felt that she was too immature for me to be in a serious relationship with.

I ended up breaking up with her because well... she was just that, immature and somewhat of a b****. When explaining how I felt, I stated that I felt she was just too young. My current girlfriend is younger

Of course, she's more mature, which makes it that much more ironic.

The classic one that ex-girlfriends will pull out (usually in-front of as many people as possible) is the old "you have a small d***". Regardless of it's truth, people will believe it because you either say "yes" (in which case you agree) or say "no" (and people presume you are embarrassed and lying).

Unfortunately there's no comeback other than "more like you have a bucket!"

I can't say really on behalf of (some) guys but i can just guess...maybe from previous relationships they have just come to realise not to invest too much emotionally...but this happens to gals as well....ppl just try to run away when things become to difficult to deal with...cause it is the less painful way out.

how can someone change?..funny you should ask..i am trying really hard to understand that one myself... it doesnt make sense.....how can someone who cared every little thing about you now hates you the most

I guess life is similar to the story of a pebble .....you are hit with so many harsh things in life that at the end ....you are that round ...smooth...and beautiful