Girls, been with someone that cannot get it up?

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I was out with a group of friends, and after a couple of drinks one of the girls mentioned they were with someone who couldn't get it up. They were laughing about him and, generally, taking the piss. I thought to myself 'perhaps it was your fault...'

I want to know girls, do you feel it's the males fault, or your fault if they cannot get it up?

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Nope.

Viagra?

It's not really anyone's fault. Things like stress, alcohol or just not being in the right frame of mind can cause it.

It's crappy of those girls to take the mick, sounds like that guy had a lucky escape.

Reply 5

Reflexive

Original post by Colour Me Pretty

Another thing is too much ****ing. If you've not for a week it would be impossible not to get it up.

Reply 6

Walter Ego

It's pretty easy for girls. Remove knickers and away. Us guys can suffer with nerves, and I know I have on occasions. Once I'm through it though you'd better be ready for a rough, aggressive and thrilling few hours !

Reply 7

Reflexive

Original post by Ape Gone Insane

True, but if you've not ****ed for a week, it's going to be a very early landing. :awesome:

That's why you take straight the hell off again

Reply 8

twist.the.illusion

I was with somebody and this happened. But he had a legitimate reason and I loved him dearly, so even though it was frustrating at times, I got over it and just dealt.

Reply 9

-honeybee-

It's not nice but I think that girl was probably laughing at the guy due to her own insecurites... I'm sure some girls think it's their fault and that they're not attractive enough.

Reply 10

Colour Me Pretty

Original post by Reflexive

Another thing is too much ****ing. If you've not for a week it would be impossible not to get it up.

And condoms.

Reply 11

Joinedup

You'd do the gentlemanly thing and make sure the lady got her happy ending by other means surely?

Reply 12

AreYouDizzeeBlud_x

flick your bean in front of him. If he still cant get up then exiting the closet is his next move!

Reply 13

Reflexive

Original post by Colour Me Pretty

And condoms.

Huh? You don't put a condom on before you get it up?

Reply 14

No Future

Alcohol and some other drugs can cause this e.g. coke

Reply 15

Colour Me Pretty

Original post by AreYouDizzeeBlud_x

flick your bean in front of him. If he still cant get up then exiting the closet is his next move!

Why do guys get so turned on by that? :lol:

Reply 16

Walter Ego

Original post by Colour Me Pretty

Why do guys get so turned on by that? :lol:

Dunno, but it's great :biggrin:

Reply 17

Colour Me Pretty

Original post by Reflexive

Huh? You don't put a condom on before you get it up?

Well, it's quite common for guys being unable to keep it up with a condom. Sorry, I just thought the thread was covering all aspects of flacidity. :o:

Reply 18

Rancorous

Whether she's seeing him or in a relationship with him - it's incredibly crass and classless to talk about a guy like that in front of other people. I know girls watch Sex and the City and therefore talking about sex, their penis size etc is all ok - and maybe it is to 1-3 other friends, actually talking about it for the most part as a legit problem, maybe there being a laugh or two to make light of it. But with a straight guy (s) present at the pub, and bringing it up to just take the piss out of him is totally classless - the guy might very well know or meet up with these friends and you. I would disown that ****.

I agree with you - he probably didn't get it up because she's an eyesore. He has to pile down 100 shots of vodka before she starts becoming attractive and by then the penis won't work anyway. If you have some class and maturity, you keep that stuff to yourself and maybe some close friends to talk about it constructively.

If you can't get it up in your teens, twenties - 99.9% of the time it will be because you don't find the girl attractive, or there's alcohol involved - or both - if you find the girl doable with alcohol, it won't happen - that's happened to me once - if it's a really smoking hot girl, alcohol or no, it's never failed for me. But stress can also cause it in which case she could have been laughing about a legit medical problem.

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Reply 19

Reflexive

Original post by Colour Me Pretty

Well, it's quite common for guys being unable to keep it up with a condom. Sorry, I just thought the thread was covering all aspects of flacidity. :o: