Are women just looking for rich men?

Money doesnt matter much, I only care about appearance and personality. Why does nobody care about guys looks anymore?? But I have had a "privileged" life so maybe my answer will not be the consensus...

Reply 22

Comeheretellme

A successful man. If he's rich then...

Reply 23

baffled_mathman

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Original post by No Future

In long term relationships:

There's a difference between being a gold digger and wanting to make babies with someone who can provide for the children and someone with a professional job is more likely to do that.

Who said anything about "making babies"? It just goes to prove that women look for "providers" who will get them pregnant and have the money to pay for the results! Women have exactly the same instincts as when we lived in caves!

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Original post by baffled_mathman

Who said anything about "making babies"? It just goes to prove that women look for "providers" who will get them pregnant and have the money to pay for the results! Women have exactly the same instincts as when we lived in caves!

What?

If you're going to choose a long term partner to have a family with, it seems sensible to choose one who can provide a steady income if you are expected to take a break from your career for several years to raise the children.

Are you saying you would go and have children and not provide for them or as you put it not "pay for the results"?

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Reply 25

baffled_mathman

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Original post by No Future

What?

If you're going to choose a long term partner to have a family with, it seems sensible to choose one who can provide a steady income if you are expected to take a break from your career for several years to raise the children.

What?

The idea isn't to "choose a man to have a family with". We're not just walking sperm factories and wallets you know! Unless you see it from the female perspective of course!

Reply 26

Whatever9999

yh there are losers everywhere .

Reply 27

Original post by baffled_mathman

What?

The idea isn't to "choose a man to have a family with". We're not just walking sperm factories and wallets you know! Unless you see it from the female perspective of course!

wtf? Who said anything about walking sperm bank? :wtf:

Did you even read my post?

Long term relationships where babies are involved vs short term relationships.

You seem to assume women all think the same thing.

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Reply 28

baffled_mathman

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Original post by No Future

wtf?

Did you even read my post?

Long term relationships where babies are involved vs short term relationships.

You seem to assume women all think the same thing.

wtf?

This is the thing with women (a good percentage of them), they see a man and think "is he worth making babies with?"...if so then maybe he's "long term potential". Humans are more animalistic than we realise sometimes!

I'd avoid letting men you date know how you think ;-)

Reply 29

Original post by baffled_mathman

wtf?

This is the thing with women (a good percentage of them), they see a man and think "is he worth making babies with?"...if so then maybe he's "long term potential". Humans are more animalistic than we realise sometimes!

I'd avoid letting men you date know how you think ;-)

Is that not true for either sex? Surely if you're considering a long term relationship/making babies, you would consider whether the person is the right person and has long term potential as part of a family and as a partner. Would they make a good mother/father etc?

How I think? That you should choose your partners carefully? What's wrong with that? It's not a secret or anything to hide. Why shouldn't you consider carefully when choosing a partner?

Please stop making assumptions about women and putting a negative spin on everything "Oh they want me for a sperm bank, goldigging hoes" :rolleyes:

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Reply 30

M1F2R3

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Original post by .Ali.

Different women like different things.

Whilst I don't go for money, I must admit, I'm attracted to an ambitious career minded man.

Megalomaniac?

Reply 31

dadude

Id say for a woman older than 24, money/being successful is the number one thing women consider before a guys looks or his accent or anything else. At the end of the day having a six pack or dreamy eyes is great. But being able to travel, eat at nice restaurants, drive a nice car is way more important for a woman. Not to mention a successful guy is usually more interesting and stimulating than a poorer dude

Reply 32

M1F2R3

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Original post by Wozzie

Oh. My. God!

And here I was thinking this dude just had a big ol set of balls!

Maybe she liked his tie :colonhash:

Reply 33

scireamortente

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That's a big generalisation you're making there. Money means no financial worries which is good for a relationship especially a long term one, so I don't see why we can't take it into consideration. Guys totally consider girls by what they look like, just ask yourself why you do and you'll have the answer you want.

Reply 34

Anonymous #1

Whenever anyone asks me this i tell them, Im never looking for a rich man because I would rather be with a poor, pretty man than a rich ugly horrible man... but honeslty i don't care about their money!!!! (and im not ugly... just saying incase u think i can't get a rich man.... i can :wink:

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Reply 35

MilkyC

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Girls judge guys primarily on looks. If you're a good looking guy you can do what you want with them, fix up your appearance lads!

Reply 36

najanyn

IMO Women want men who they know can look after themselves and their family and can think for themselves; a well-paying job is simply an indicator that they are capable of just that. Anyone who says we're gold diggers for wanting that is a jealous moron.

I want someone intelligent and ambitious, someone who knows how to act towards me and can hold a conversation with me. I don't care how much cash they have particularly, but that's just me. Seeing as I'm 19 I'm not going to find anyone with that kind of money unless they're from a rich family or something.

Reply 37

Original post by najanyn

IMO Women want men who they know can look after themselves and their family and can think for themselves; a well-paying job is simply an indicator that they are capable of just that. Anyone who says we're gold diggers for wanting that is a jealous moron.

This exactly.

Reply 38

Flyer8