how can i tell her without embarrassing her

My girlfriend wears low rise jeans almost everyday and her crack always sticks out in school and I see people staring sometimes and its awkward for me. I do like seeing it but its too often in school and I see people stare at her. How can I tell her this, I don't want her to get mad at me or make it awkward?

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Reply 1

pooo

walk about with your ass on show.

Kills 2 birds - because your crack on show will help her understand your objection to her ass on show.

(edited 13 years ago)

Reply 2

cappleby118

Original post by Anonymous

Just pull her jeans up, I pull my girlfriends top up if her boobs are on show. She'll probably like the fact that you dont want anyone else to see and feel like you're protective of her, which is what a boyfriend should be like!

Reply 3

tinshed

Original post by Anonymous

she'll be more annoyed knowing that you knew and didn't say anything so just tell her

Reply 4

Menakshelatte

personally i'd love it if my bf was jealous of me XD it's a different issue if she's a flirt...

Reply 5

i'm awesome

dress her in a bin liner!
(but means you cant go to france)

Reply 6

mikeylfc1989

Original post by i'm awesome

dress her in a bin liner!
(but means you cant go to france)

Reply 7

Anonymous #1

Original post by tinshed

she'll be more annoyed knowing that you knew and didn't say anything so just tell her

so how do i tell her without making it seem awkward?

Reply 8

tinshed

Original post by Anonymous

so how do i tell her without making it seem awkward?

I don't see how it can be done without making it awkward so you'll have to just tell her

Reply 9

skunky x

Maybe I'm just in a bizarre relationship, but my boyfriend has no problem telling me if my pants are out/my top has slipped.

What is it with all these men? Just say 'Love, as much as I appreciate it, your ass is hanging out.' Problem solved.

Reply 10

boba

Original post by cappleby118

who on earth would like their boyfriend pulling their clothes up. if a boy I was with ever pulled my top up Id make sure he knew that it was not ok

Original post by skunky x

this is a example of what I would like because then there telling you being helpful and you can cover yourself up to stop you embarrassing yourself. what the first person suggested, especaly with the explanation in bold would seriously piss me off

(edited 13 years ago)

Tell her.

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Roll some newspaper into a funnel.

Carry a jug of water with you.

Next time she has her crack on display, quickly apply funnel to crack, pour water into it and wait for the results.

Guaranteed after 6 - 10 times she will dress differently.

Reply 13

linkaneo

Just say, "People are looking at your arse, pet." and pull her jeans up by the belt support and the back, and laugh. It'd be funny. I'd rather my boyfriend told me my arse was on show than not know it. It's better to be embarrassed breifly than to realise you've been embarrasing yourself all day.

Reply 14

Khaysha-Saine

no good way to say it just say your jeans are too low, people stare, pull them up lol

Reply 15

Anonymous #2

My girlfriend's breasts are quite large so if her top goes a little low i just to a little pulling my own collar up and nodding at her and she gets the idea.She's never offended, but then again she doesn't purposely let it happen, maybe your girlfriend wants people to see?

Anyway, do the same with your jeans/bottoms for her.

Reply 16

Melanie-v

Tell her you don't like other people seeing it. Don't do it in that weird macho, controlling, I-say-what-clothes-you-wear way though. A little jealousy is good. :smile: