I don't have any confidence issues,and find it easy to approach people,but it just stops there.. I don't know what to talk about, and can't start/hold a convo. what do you talk about to your friends normally?
you can talk about anything!! what you had for breakfast what you did last night where you're going on holiday or start off with something obvious and it'll just flow
just let the convo flow.....listen, respond to what she says, talk about yourself a bit and you'll be fine
If someone said that to me I would think they were a right weirdo.
Just ask about what she does and whether she enjoys it, where she lives and whether she likes it there, what else she likes doing and how she got into it, what shes planning on doing at summer/Christmas, and each time share a relevant piece of information about yourself.
You can also touch on relevent topics you feel confident she would most likely also be aware of, such as the weather, current surroundings and company, recent news events, recent film releases. Try to be interesting and opinionated without being controversial.
If someone said that to me I would think they were a right weirdo.
Just ask about what she does and whether she enjoys it, where she lives and whether she likes it there, what else she likes doing and how she got into it, what shes planning on doing at summer/Christmas, and each time share a relevant piece of information about yourself.
You can also touch on relevent topics you feel confident she would most likely also be aware of, such as the weather, current surroundings and company, recent news events, recent film releases. Try to be interesting and opinionated without being controversial.
its worked for me
but you make a fair point, as its all in the delivery
You can try practising chitchat by going on to one of those random-chat websites, like Omegle.com that repeatedly match you with random people. Poor substitute for real conversation, but it might get your confidence up.
2/3rds of them will try to show you their ***** though, which is not something that happens in real life .