peeing, farting, period in front of bf/gf

I try not to fart in front of him although he says I should. I pee in front of him when I'm drunk, he pees and farts in front of me whenever. We sometimes have sex when I'm on cos we can't seem to wait 5 days but he doesn't see used tampons

it isnt though, come back to me when you've given birth and tell me you still hang on to any shred of dignity after he's seen down the business end

This isn't exactly a brilliant comparison as having a child is a completely different thing to sex (besides the obvious sex-makes-a-baby link) just because we choose not to have sex during my period does not mean we aren't in a mature relationship. Our sexual preferences should not reflect so heavily on how loving we are. If I said I didn't like anal, nobody would care. I don't see why its so 'immature' to not want to have sex on your period.

Gonna post this anon as it's gonna sound weird but..

My ex would often make me go to the toilet with her when she peed, because she'd "miss me" or if it was nighttime because she was scared (eg. if we had been watching a horror movie). She'd sit there and do a pee while I basically gave her little kisses or stroked her hir or held her hand or something..

So weird when you put it down in words but I loved it, I thought it was so cute lmao...

it's an excellent comparison, would you ask him to wait outside the delivery room?
i didnt say you werent 'loving', but wait until youre in a proper relationship and living with someone, it will most likely change. you cant be prissy about a drop of blood, youre not a housewife in the 1950s.

I'm not 'prissy' about blood. I know its not that big a deal and a lot of people do it, I just choose not to. Why is it so unusual to wait 3-5 days to have sex? No period pains, you feel clean and more 'fresh' and also more sexy.
I just don't understand how one small thing that a couple chooses to do/not do somehow determines whether or not they are in a 'proper' relationship. It is no different to couples who do/don't have anal.

there's a world of difference.

your original post was fairly scathing to those of us who think a woman on her period is pretty normal and a world away from going to the toilet in public!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
your post made me feel quite defensive, i couldnt believe you'd compare it to anal, frankly!

and lucky you to have periods that only last 3 days!

I don't know how, but it does lessen the attraction for a short time. If my man is standing before me I feel like ravishing him, if he stands before me then farts I'd rather not ravish him at that time!

I love him as a person. Do I love the fact he farts and pees? Not really, that would be weird.

Just because someone doesn't like the idea of having sex on their period doesn't mean they are incapable of having a fulfilling, intimate relationship. Did it ever cross your mind that they are comfortable with it, but just think its disgusting? I mean all this talk about 'mood killers' tbh being on your period isn't exactly the sexiest thing in itself is it? I am completely comfortable around my boyfriend, but frankly I find sex during my period unhygienic and a little grim. Additionally, I'm sure he is not a fan of the idea of having his penis covered in my menstrual blood. That is what handjobs and oral sex is for.

I never used to fart in front of my boyfriend, which just led to my tummy getting very bloated and sore. Now I live with him, holding it in all the time is just not possible- I'd be constantly in pain! I won't wee in front of him though, and I get cross if he doesn't shut the bathroom door properly so it swings open when he's using the loo. I'm sure in time we won't be that fussed, probably once he's seen me have a baby (which, let's face it, isn't the most dignified of activities) but for now I'm holding on to some sense of dignity!