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Mother has no respect for my privacy!

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Original post by penguin-
Don't be insulting, I can read, which is a feat within itself considering how you type.
I'm not going to bother anymore. Your first piece of advice was not useful, especially as it was proceeded by ''you're all typical white people''


lol So your basicly saying if a book had a stupid title what ever it had written inside it would be of no use? And i dont get how u can complain about my typing lol, if its really that hard to read then maybe you have problems.
Original post by Manesh2468
lol So your basicly saying if a book had a stupid title what ever it had written inside it would be of no use? And i dont get how u can complain about my typing lol, if its really that hard to read then maybe you have problems.


No, I said nothing like that at all...
I don't have problems, stop insulting me it's boring
Original post by penguin-
No, I said nothing like that at all...
I don't have problems, stop insulting me it's boring


I aint trying to insult you, but if you did read what i said then you would see that i added some helpful stuff =/

plus jus cose i started with "typical white people" doesnt mean what i wrote wouldnt be of use lol
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Original post by FormerlyHistoryStudent
Why is everybody saying this? She said what was in it near the beginning (or strongly hinted, anyway.) She's got a vibrator in there.


That's disappointing
Original post by Manesh2468
I aint trying to insult you, but if you did read what i said then you would see that i added some helpful stuff =/

plus jus cose i started with "typical white people" doesnt mean what i wrote wouldnt be of use lol


From reading through this thread I have come to one conclusion: You are a racist little individual and do nothing but insult people with your ridiculous generalisations, contradict yourself and try and worm your way out of well deserved criticism.



Oh - and OP - I'm in a similar situation, I've recently been diagnosed with something and I have told my mum purely because if this condition flares up she's the one takes me to hospital as I'm unable to drive in that state. So far she's been completely intolerable, asking me about it constantly, asking me what tests I've had at the doctor and why. I keep telling her I'm not prepared to speak about it because it's a very personal matter, but she keeps coming out with things like "but you're my daughter", "you're a funny ossity, why won't you tell me?" etc. She will learn one day that I'm not going to tell her anything more.
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Original post by bananaslug77
From reading through this thread I have come to one conclusion: You are a racist little individual and do nothing but insult people with your ridiculous generalisations, contradict yourself and try and worm your way out of well deserved criticism.


nah i aint racist, but sure if you say so... and no i didnt insult anyone before they insulted me so yeh i dont see you complaining about them, and how is critising someones typing of any value to this thread? i gave a geniune original post at the start and its not my fault if some people cant accept the truth, and maybe your the ones thas racist if your calling me racists =/ its pretty easy to point the finger and chat crap about someone just cose your on a computer but you really should'nt take advantage of it... i dont remember contradicting myself, just because someone said i did by putting stuff out of context doesnt mean actually did.

roflmao and i aint little btw so don't go off assuming stuff :smile:
Lol this thread is becoming just as ridiculous as the first "whats in the box" thread from ages ago :tongue:
Original post by Manesh2468
nah i aint racist, but sure if you say so... and no i didnt insult anyone before they insulted me so yeh i dont see you complaining about them, and how is critising someones typing of any value to this thread? i gave a geniune original post at the start and its not my fault if some people cant accept the truth, and maybe your the ones thas racist if your calling me racists =/ its pretty easy to point the finger and chat crap about someone just cose your on a computer but you really should'nt take advantage of it... i dont remember contradicting myself, just because someone said i did by putting stuff out of context doesnt mean actually did.

roflmao and i aint little btw so don't go off assuming stuff :smile:


Your post may have been "geniune and original" but it was still racist and insulting. There is no such thing as a "typical white person", just as there is no such thing as a "typical asian person". There isn't a "typical" anything. There is a desire that exists in a lot of humans for privacy. It's natural. You aren't telling the truth about different races, you're just spouting bull****.

Haha, you already contradicted yourself by saying you haven't insulted anyone before they insulted you, but your first post was in itself an insult.

Hah. I mean little in a metaphorical sense - your points of view are so ridiculous that when trying to big yourself up, you really just make yourself look small and pathetic.
Original post by bananaslug77
Your post may have been "geniune and original" but it was still racist and insulting. There is no such thing as a "typical white person", just as there is no such thing as a "typical asian person". There isn't a "typical" anything. There is a desire that exists in a lot of humans for privacy. It's natural. You aren't telling the truth about different races, you're just spouting bull****.

Haha, you already contradicted yourself by saying you haven't insulted anyone before they insulted you, but your first post was in itself an insult.

Hah. I mean little in a metaphorical sense - your points of view are so ridiculous that when trying to big yourself up, you really just make yourself look small and pathetic.


Nah i aint trying to big myself up.. chill out its only a forum. Im pretty sure theres typical white people and typical asians... and yeh privacy is a important thing in life but whas the big deal when it comes down to familys , its only the things that your too ashamed to show your family that you want your privacy for... i doubt the typical white people thing insulted many people sinces its barely insulting, if it is instulting then they should have a ego check cose its really minor.

and in all honesty i wasnt attempting to be racist, if your soo narrow minded and think i was then sure im sorry but yeh as i said its minor and "white" aint even a race =/
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Original post by bananaslug77
Your post may have been "geniune and original" but it was still racist and insulting. There is no such thing as a "typical white person", just as there is no such thing as a "typical asian person". There isn't a "typical" anything. There is a desire that exists in a lot of humans for privacy. It's natural. You aren't telling the truth about different races, you're just spouting bull****.

Haha, you already contradicted yourself by saying you haven't insulted anyone before they insulted you, but your first post was in itself an insult.

Hah. I mean little in a metaphorical sense - your points of view are so ridiculous that when trying to big yourself up, you really just make yourself look small and pathetic.


Couldn't agree more with what your saying! But don't bother- He'll just twist what he's previously said. I looked back at previous posts and he's so full of bull **** it's actually laughable...
Original post by penguin-
Couldn't agree more with what your saying! But don't bother- He'll just twist what he's previously said. I looked back at previous posts and he's so full of bull **** it's actually laughable...


i dont twist anything , you say i do and people may believe it but yeh i dont, and no i aint full of crap as u put it, you lots just think i am cose your insecure fools who cant even let your family see things in there own house becauses its "yours" and you may feel like your pretty smart but yeh i know alot of real people who found your posts pathetic and the thing is that people like you will pluck at useless straws to make the real points seem irrelevant so yeh i cant be bothered with you lots any more, your pretty pathetic to try insult someone, even though you couldnt read properly, could only manipulate what i had already said and put things out of context to make your point L0L been fun to see who ever tried insulting me because i know in real life there wouldnt be much of a chance roflmao enjoy your group attack... doubt youd get along with each other like that in real life though lol!!
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Original post by Manesh2468
i dont twist anything , you say i do and people may believe it but yeh i dont, and no i aint full of crap as u put it, you lots just think i am cose your insecure fools who cant even let your family see things in there own house becauses its "yours" and you may feel like your pretty smart but yeh i know alot of real people who found your posts pathetic and the thing is that people like you will pluck at useless straws to make the real points seem irrelevant so yeh i cant be bothered with you lots any more, your pretty pathetic to try insult someone, even though you couldnt read properly, could only manipulate what i had already said and put things out of context to make your point L0L been fun to see who ever tried insulting me because i know in real life there wouldnt be much of a chance roflmao enjoy your group attack... doubt youd get along with each other like that in real life though lol!!


:lolwut: chill man
oh and stop quoting me plz, i dont wanna debate anymore. Me too tired :frown:
If your happy with your parents rummaging through your things, then cool, you get on with your life and I'll get on with mine
Don't understand how some people can be so subdued to their parents. You're being treated like a child. I'd affix a lock to my door. Your parents are just people - be cool, calm and commanding instead of shouting like a child and it does wonders.

I'd just be like;

"My room is my own personal space. Come in here again, open my mail again, read my phone again, and I will consider placing a lock on all of those things. I am legally an adult and entitled to my own personal space. I am asking you now to re-evaluate your actions, and the consequent strain they are placing on our relationship, or I may have to take my own initiative on the issue."
Original post by penguin-
:lolwut: chill man
oh and stop quoting me plz, i dont wanna debate anymore. Me too tired :frown:
If your happy with your parents rummaging through your things, then cool, you get on with your life and I'll get on with mine


eh thats my point, they actually don't go through my stuff cose you have to create a trustful enviroment, which most people dont and so the parents become curious and go thought your stuff, they aint just going to be one like "oh its time to search all my kids stuff now"...
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My mum always reads my mail and opens my packages, despite not living at home anymore.

She always used to use the excuse "I didn't read it properly and thought it was for me". I can understand that there's only the two of us in the house, so most mail is for her, but we have different surnames!
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Sounds like you need to sit down and have a proper chat, possibly with some backup of a kind.

Otherwise, consider taking steps to secure your affairs. Can you get your post delivered elsewhere? Encrypt/password protect your phone, computer, etc.
When you go to uni, take *everything* that you don't want her to fiddle with.
Fill the box with the following items:

-Oregano to look like weed (as someone already mentioned).

-Condoms

- animal/gay porn

-razor blades + needles

-A book on how to comit patricide and get away with it.

- A suicide note in your mother's name.

Then hide the key somewhere it can be easily found and make sure there's a cam in the room so you can see your moms face!
Original post by Manesh2468
i dno i think its pretty acceptable after everything ive seen, if you do ever go india youl notice no ones doors are shut for the whole day, over here everyone is very confidential and want alot of privacy which is fine, but then u get subgroups e.g. community - > familys -> family members, everyone has something to hide which is fine, but you cant go blaming when you think no one repescts your privacy. Sure if they trust you then you should have your own privacy in a ideal world but how many parents acctually trust there teenager kids? =/


I've read the whole thread and I think ur comments about whites were totally unnecessary :mad: Having a need for privacy has nothing to do with that, Im Asian and I very well need my own space even though I've got nothing to hide.

As regards the doors in India being open, its only to let in fresh air as most people dont have the luxury of acs and it can get quite hot.
Original post by Manesh2468
no offence to any of u lots , but ur all typical white people =/ what u lots crying bout privacy against the person that raised you, ur still living in there house and what ever is inside it belongs to them basicly and even if your "paying" to be there its still there property and they have the right to know the contents of it. BTW putting a padlock on a box does tempt curiousity obviously anyone would want to know whats inside it once they have seen it, cose its a bit like saying "theres something in hear that your not allowed to see" and thas like the dumbest thing u could say to ur parents since after that they WILL want to see whats inside it. Anyways bout hiding what ever ur hiding it makes more sense to hide somewhere where no one ever goes or somewhere hard to get to gl....:s-smilie: neg rep the hell out of me roflmao cose the truth hurts!:biggrin:


They dont have a 'right' to know whats inside, they might own the house but not own u. They shouldnt be going around reading ur text messages and stuff cuz it shows a lack of trust, the messages may not be 'wrong' or bad as such themselves but they may not be meant for them and/or may be misinterpreted.
Original post by The_Timepasser
They dont have a 'right' to know whats inside, they might own the house but not own u. They shouldnt be going around reading ur text messages and stuff cuz it shows a lack of trust, the messages may not be 'wrong' or bad as such themselves but they may not be meant for them and/or may be misinterpreted.


lol bruv what was the point in doing this haha, you know im right no use arguing:tongue:

and they do "own" you untill you are above the age of 18, untill then you are under there supervision which means they have the right to check your things, unless they have been baught by yourself personaly which i highly doubt being that they had to cry about it on a forum... and the arguments against the house, its there parents house, the kid does not pay any rent through a formal contract which means even if they pay "rent" (makes them feel happy that they are "old" enough) the property/rooms in the house are still the parents property, just cose they say "this is your room" to make the kid feel more mature and happy does not mean it is actually theres.... and the only way there is going to be any real lack of trust is if the child is a trouble child who is not worth trusting due to hindsight over the years of raising the kid...

if the kid lived in there own house and there parent came to search through everything then this would be a whole new argument.
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