What date do you set your Anniversary as?

Unless you actually get together on the day I just don't see it. In that situation I'd class it from the first kiss.

For instance, I know a couple who count it from the day they met, despite them both pulling other people afterwards, before they were mutually exclusive. They didn't even get together on that day! I don't really think you can count that as the start of your relationship.

Well my boyfriend (now ex) and I got together wayy before Facebook let you put an anniversary date, so we just guessed at one haha. But we tried to work it out from the night we got together we'd been friends for ages and had to have the discussion about whether it was really worth "ruining our friendship" over. It lasted two years, and we have lovely memories (and some not to lovely) but I can honestly say I wished we hadn't bothered, as we'd still be good friends if it wasn't for that

Sorry for that rant, that really wasn't part of the question was it haha.

I'd go for the date we became bf/gf aka got into a relationship. If it went on to marriage () then I'd use the wedding date as our anniversary.

Aww, wow I went through something almost exactly the same as that! Quite freaky!


Really? I know this is kind of random, but I love talking about this stuff You don't think it's important to celebrate when you get together as a couple even when you're married?

Probably not, do that many married couples celebrate the day they got together? I suppose as it's not a set/fixed date in mind, like the planning of a marriage, they perhaps remember the marriage date better. My parents don't remember the day they got together, I don't think, they just use their wedding anniversary.

We had a discussion where we actually said we were boyfriend and girlfriend, so that day. Though it was really obvious already anyway.
We didn't care too much about the specific day though.