Do your parents get a bit uneasy if you date outside your race?

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Original post by CherryCherryBoomBoom

I think my parents would prefer me to get with an African guy. Well, that's what my dad has vocally expressed a few times. But I'm sure they wouldn't mind too much if the guy was a different race, providing he was decent for me :smile:

Not being rude but I'd never ever want to be with a 'freshie' African guy.

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U.S Lecce

Well my parents woud be upset if i dated outside my RACE, i mean beastiality isn't exactly legal. However i'm allowed to date whatever ethnicity i please, considering i'm the product of ethnic mixing, they'd be very hypocritical to say otherwise.

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username418231

Original post by Anonymous

My parents have said they wouldn't want me dating a black guy because our kids wouldn't look like me. They're not racist, and I kinda agree with them. They said if we were black they wouldn't want me dating a white guy for the same reason.

Do your parents expect kids to be clones or something?

Reply 123

username737808

I never have, but I don't think either of my parents would mind at all if I did.
Which is good, because I do have a thing for black guys :P

Reply 124

The_resurrection

My parents wouldn't mind seeing as they are not thick, bigoted, morons.

Reply 125

dmz

my parents get uneasy if i date at all :colonhash:

****ing on the low is hard work, Bring on uni!

My last ex was very upper class tho and couldn't tell her parents i was black, someone once saw us and told her mum and she had to lie i was mixed race :lol:

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dmz

Original post by LoveErinxo

I never have, but I don't think either of my parents would mind at all if I did.
Which is good, because I do have a thing for black guys :P

Reply 127

musicforsanity

Only when I try to date Romulans for some reason. Vulcans on the other hand, they like the green-blooded goblins. Who knows eh?!

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dmz

Original post by CherryCherryBoomBoom

Haha my mum thinks I'm going to marry a Nigerian girl, boy is she going to be shocked. Dad's only bothered about her being a Christian

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Ich Dien

Original post by 'bob'

say what?

You never played the speechcraft game? :rolleyes:

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username418231

Original post by KJane

I don't think they would, not as if I would care though. We got angry with our Uncle though cause he refused to acknowledge his neice (my cousin) and her new baby cause its a mixed race baby she's had with her black partner.

Aww how sad. Sorry but your uncle's a p****. What ever happened to 'blood is thicker than water?'

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username418231

Original post by dmz

My last ex was very upper class tho and couldn't tell her parents i was black, someone once saw us and told her mum and she had to lie i was mixed race :lol:

OMG

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Ebuwa

Original post by dmz

Haha my mum thinks I'm going to marry a Nigerian girl, boy is she going to be shocked. Dad's only bothered about her being a Christian

lol why?

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dmz

Original post by Dee Leigh

OMG

Haha, i wasn't even allowed gf's and it wasn't her fault her parents are like that so no need to make her life hard,(had to spend ****loads on hotels :sigh:

) her mum wants us to be friends now tho, x

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dmz

Original post by Ebuwa

lol why?

cos if i ever grow the balls to get married she might not even be black, lol. Any girl that was at the same stage as me personality/value/belief wise i guess.

Reply 135

RexyB

My mum used to be all "Better not marry a White man! (or Ghanian - she didn't actually say it but it was in her eyes)"

And then she started dating a white guy and is now telling me to marry white men as... (well - she cusses out nigerian dudes. you wouldn't want to hear)

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Ebuwa

Original post by RexyB

I think the whole Ghanian and Naij beef is silly.

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Rossical

I'm mixed myself, so i dont see them having any issues
The UK is probably the most open minded country when it comes to interracial relationships, i read an article somewhere saying that we have the highest interracial marriage percentage ...if this were America the poll results would be very different

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Reply 138

Fat-Love

Hmmm my mum is definitely against me dating outside my race (not that I could give ****) though in her social interactions with other races she doesn't seem to be racists. Just during marriage talk she tends to become quite racist. She has this idea that you should marry within your own race to preserve culture or some bull like that.

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thecat23

Original post by Angie varona

They are cool with every other race except black.Even mixed race is fine but not black.

I dont like black girls at all so its all good anyway.They're ugly imo.