Girl I'm dating calling me 'cutie'? O.o

is this your biggest problem in life?

I am also looking for that kind of thing with a guy. Like a lover more than an f-buddy. But it usually gets messy. Either I get jealous or he does. Or both of us, although nobody admit it. And it's a difficult situation for two people to mutually understand unless it's directly explained.

It's a COMPLIMENT - accept it!

Looking for good reps?


Yeah she made compliments about my looks, but are you sure this is the same thing? Maybe I'm just paranoid, but it just doesn't seem the right word to say to a guy as a straight compliment.



If I would simply be looking for sex, I could also just call up a prostitute.

Where did I make an issue out of it? Different people got different questions..

Hey,
Only advice that comes from your experience please.

So I date this girl, and it was all right straight forward, we made out and had sex on the first date, and do it since (been only a couple of weeks). She knows I'm not looking for anything serious. But I can see her pushing the boundaries at times. She is pretty much VERY into me.

The only thing that I find strange is that she calls me 'cutie' quite often. I'm not native English, but I put this word more in connection with girls than with guys. Why would a girl that likes me that much as a guy feminise me? She is a bit of a Tomboy, and I'm not an ******* type guy if that helps you in any way.

As always, help is much appreciated.

Yeah but its a stupid question. Thats like someone saying "Why does my girlfriend call me 'babe'?" or "Why does my mum call me 'sweetheart'?"

It doesnt matter.

Laid on first date? May i ask where did you go?

She's a Tomboy and you aren't. By her calling you cutie she's subliminally taking some of the "power" over the relationship, most of which is due to her being a "tomboy" and you allowing her to call you sweetie. Sweetie is something one of my female friends who is 6 years older than me calls me. She says I'm cute. I know she's not interested in a relationship and neither am I, however her calling me sweetie is just her expressing how she perceives me through my actions and how I act towards her.

I'm not saying anything is wrong with it and she isn't trying to take anything away from you in terms of the relationship, however if you don't like it you could just ask her to stop, I don't think a big deal would come out of this or anything.