obsessed with a guy I've never even met - how do I 'get better'? :(

online frends are better den real life, i have real life frends but they are all idiot, you should talk to him more and c if he want to meet up?

i have real life frends but they are all idiot,

that pretty much sums it up. met a guy on here; what started as pity chatting eventually turned into me liking him. now I don't know how to stop. pretty convinced he definitely hates me because I got a bit too intense so I'm blocked now, but I still like him as there's nothing he did to warrant me disliking him. what's messed up is that the last few times (6 weeks ago) we did speak, I probably felt the same amount of indifference towards him as he did for me, and I was just genuinely annoyed by the thought of him. weeks have passed that I didn't even think about him, I swear. in the meanwhile, I also met somebody irl who I like and who likes me too. but now this obsession has come back all of the sudden and it's just messed me up even more. I'd just really like to meet/see him in person for some sort of 'closure', but he's unwilling to meet anybody from the internet. I don't even know why I keep entertaining this fantasy of meeting him as I know it's pointless and very obvious he doesn't feel the same, but I think that's the only way I can move on and never look back. I never liked anybody before, and this 'experience' has left me feeling I need a therapist.

Oh my god leave me alone, i DON'T LIKE YOU AND I DON'T WANT TO HAVE A RELATIONSHIP WITH YOU.

sERIOUSLY THIS IS GETTING CREEPY.

Oh my god leave me alone, i DON'T LIKE YOU AND I DON'T WANT TO HAVE A RELATIONSHIP WITH YOU.

sERIOUSLY THIS IS GETTING CREEPY.

that pretty much sums it up. met a guy on here; what started as pity chatting eventually turned into me liking him. now I don't know how to stop. pretty convinced he definitely hates me because I got a bit too intense so I'm blocked now, but I still like him as there's nothing he did to warrant me disliking him. what's messed up is that the last few times (6 weeks ago) we did speak, I probably felt the same amount of indifference towards him as he did for me, and I was just genuinely annoyed by the thought of him. weeks have passed that I didn't even think about him, I swear. in the meanwhile, I also met somebody irl who I like and who likes me too. but now this obsession has come back all of the sudden and it's just messed me up even more. I'd just really like to meet/see him in person for some sort of 'closure', but he's unwilling to meet anybody from the internet. I don't even know why I keep entertaining this fantasy of meeting him as I know it's pointless and very obvious he doesn't feel the same, but I think that's the only way I can move on and never look back. I never liked anybody before, and this 'experience' has left me feeling I need a therapist.

I kind of wonder if this could be me...

would you like it to be you?

hey have you watched Catfish-if not you definately should!