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I have a crush on a girl i don't even know.

She goes to UCL and is a friend of a friend. She's from Manchester and i live down South so it's impossible that anything would ever happen.
I check her Facebook everyday and just stare longingly at her pictures. She's the kind of girl that i'd like to get married to one day.
Yes this sounds pathetic but i just can't get her out of my head. How can i get over this and just get back to the real world?

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Broderss
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I am the same with this one girl and I think I'm in love. I've had one conversation with her that I think went well because she didn't ignore me after I said 'hey how are you?'. Just talk to her and see if you might at least be able to be friends. You might even discover she repulses you, you never know.
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Original post by Broderss
I am the same with this one girl and I think I'm in love. I've had one conversation with her that I think went well because she didn't ignore me after I said 'hey how are you?'. Just talk to her and see if you might at least be able to be friends. You might even discover she repulses you, you never know.


That's the thing though, she's a complete stranger. It's a bit like say me and you were friends who went to the same secondary school, we both then go to our respective universities and then i end up having a crush on one of your mates.
Because you don't know her, you are able to build up this false idea of her in your head and it's not like you'd include anything negative, like arrogance or having a nasty habit of picking her nose. You are able to create this perfect image of her because there is nothing to prove it wrong - i.e. her demonstrating to you her faults. Don't look at her profile - it'll just feed it.
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It's the same principle as having a crush on a famous person. It's a fantasy - they're attractive, you don't know much about them and so in your head they have no faults and would be perfect.

Sadly, no-one is perfect and I doubt fantasies like that ever really come true. My advice is that you've had your moment and you need to try and let it go. As the commenter above said, looking at her profile will only fuel it so just leave it be.
It doesn't sound like anything of substance. You just find her attractive. Like you said, you don't even know her.
Easiest way to get over her is to imagine her as a complete bitch.
Original post by Broderss
I am the same with this one girl and I think I'm in love. I've had one conversation with her that I think went well because she didn't ignore me after I said 'hey how are you?'. Just talk to her and see if you might at least be able to be friends. You might even discover she repulses you, you never know.


Brodersss,


Are you fascinating about Priya Rai again?!:borat:
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Original post by Mr-Dangerous
Brodersss,


Are you fascinating about Priya Rai again?!:borat:


This one's Estonian and she's wayy hotter than any Indian. Kind of like Aleska Diamond even though she's Hungarian.
Original post by Broderss
This one's Estonian and she's wayy hotter than any Indian.


Manwhore.
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Original post by Mr-Dangerous
Manwhore.


dude u got in before my edit.
Original post by Broderss
dude u got in before my edit.


Your going to start growing knob cheese if you don't stop masturbating and watching so much porn....
Does anyone else not see how pathetic this sounds?
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the best thing you can do is ....

Pics then FAP FAP FAP
Original post by Anonymous
She goes to UCL and is a friend of a friend. She's from Manchester and i live down South so it's impossible that anything would ever happen.
I check her Facebook everyday and just stare longingly at her pictures. She's the kind of girl that i'd like to get married to one day.
Yes this sounds pathetic but i just can't get her out of my head. How can i get over this and just get back to the real world?


Don't worry about it mate, it's not pathetic. If you can real feel stuff for one specific girl you have a soul, and sometimes gut feelings and are right and to be followed.
Everyone has a person who has inspired emotion in them. You sure you don;t want to try ands get in there? Presumably Just cos she's from Manchester doesn't mean she will always stay, loads of graduates stay and don't go back to their hometown, particularly if they've come from the north.
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i once had a crush on a grl i didn't know, now shes with sum gay dancer guy called derek an shes moved to L.A ...... u cant get em all
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Original post by Anonymous
She goes to UCL and is a friend of a friend. She's from Manchester and i live down South so it's impossible that anything would ever happen.
I check her Facebook everyday and just stare longingly at her pictures. She's the kind of girl that i'd like to get married to one day.
Yes this sounds pathetic but i just can't get her out of my head. How can i get over this and just get back to the real world?


Which course at ucl, may I ask :confused:
Original post by krazykipper
It's the same principle as having a crush on a famous person. It's a fantasy - they're attractive, you don't know much about them and so in your head they have no faults and would be perfect.

Sadly, no-one is perfect and I doubt fantasies like that ever really come true. My advice is that you've had your moment and you need to try and let it go. As the commenter above said, looking at her profile will only fuel it so just leave it be.


I've only ever fancied one famous person much.
Try get to know her abit more :s
:lol: This thread is so dam funny! I love HR section, it always suprises me what threads people make :rofl:

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