Boyfriend Uses a Rubber Vagina

So I was being a good girlfriend and washed my boyfriends clothes whilst he's at work. I was putting them away in his waredrobe when I spotted this flesh coloured toy. Turns out its a male masturbator with realistic looking/feeling vagina and anal entrances.

I sort of don't know what to think. He's got a masturbator already that graces our 'sex drawer' and I use it on him sometimes (and I'm sure he uses it himself when he's on his own), but I don't mind that. He told me he was buying it and it was something we could use together.

This new one though..............it looks like real lady-parts and I'm pretty sure he bought it for the ass-entrance. This bothers me cause I know he gets turned on by anal porn, and we've tried anal several times very slowly and all that...but it just feels horrible to me and really painful.
Not sure why I feel kind of upset about it..half of me couldn't care a less but the other half is really bothered by the way he's kept it all secret, the way it looks real and does a job I can't. I want to talk to him about it but I don't want to invade his privacy :/

Girls...how would you feel/what would u do?

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Reply 1

PortiaLovesMcqueen

Why did I burst out laughing at this.
This is jokes.
Hmmmm don't say anything.

Reply 2

BigBonsaiGuy

Why are you upset? It's not you found his secret texts with the slut next door about their happy anal times, you've found a toy ... which means he's respecting what you don't want to do and indulging what he does want to do without cheating.

Reply 3

Anonymous #1

Original post by PortiaLovesMcqueen

Why did I burst out laughing at this.
This is jokes.
Hmmmm don't say anything.

Don't worry, I kind of want to laugh too. I'm torn between emotions!

Reply 4

Advanced Subsidiary

It's called a Fleshlight.

And no, I don't have one :colonhash:

Reply 5

Anonymous #1

Original post by Advanced Subsidiary

It's called a Fleshlight.

And no, I don't have one :colonhash:

Nah its not, its this:
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=12335

Reply 6

PortiaLovesMcqueen

Original post by Anonymous

Don't worry, I kind of want to laugh too. I'm torn between emotions!

Yeah, OP I can understand why you'd be a little disturbed, it's just how real these things look that's soooo freaky. They creep me out. Atleadt dildos are like bright colors so they aren't realisitic but these look reall and it's just scary :/

However the fact he has kept it secret means you need to respect him and his odd pleasures :biggrin:

Reply 7

username451311

Original post by BigBonsaiGuy

This

If it's really upset you talk to him about it but otherwise he's not doing anything wrong. Yes, he could have told you about it but he's got a toy that does the job you don't want to do.. better than some other girl in my opinion!

Reply 8

xDave-

Well, look at it this way:

1. It's either the replica's arse or yours, which would you prefer?
2. At least he uses that instead of cheating on you!

He's probably just embarrassed, I wouldn't say anything to him.

Reply 9

MrBez

If I had a boyfriend, which I don't, because I am a boy, I would be pleased he was banging rubber rather than banging flesh! Consider yourself lucky!

Reply 10

Caarl

Original post by MrBez

If I had a boyfriend, which I don't, because I am a boy, I would be pleased he was banging rubber rather than banging flesh! Consider yourself lucky!

Male consensus on this issue.

Reply 11

z0tx

Put some glue inside, he'll be in for quite a surprise.

Reply 12

Tootles

Original post by Anonymous

Nah its not, its this:
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=12335

I just clicked this in college, without thinking... whoops.

Listen, right: he wants anal, but you don't like it. So he uses a toy so that it feels like he's getting anal. Which means that he's getting what he wants, you're not having what you don't want to have, and everyone should be happy.

Where's the problem in that? He's respecting what you want. Why's that so hurtful?

Reply 13

Advanced Subsidiary

Original post by Anonymous

Nah its not, its this:
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=12335

ooh those >.< ouch!

Reply 14

one-final-hit

You feel threatened by it simply because it undermines the traditional relationship: you got the pussy, you make the rules. Now he not only has the pussy, but the ass. Face it, you're just around to make sandwhiches.

Reply 15

Anonymous #2

I don't know why, but I'd be quite turned on if my boyfriend had sex toys.

Also, it's not a bad thing that he had this toy. It shows he's willing to compromise by not making you doing it, and finding someTHING (and not someONE) else to do it if that's what turns him on.

Just say you found it, but don't be upset. He obviously doesn't want to hurt or upset you by forcing you to do anal :smile:

Reply 16

MrBez

Original post by one-final-hit

And this ass doesn't post on TSR complaining.

Reply 17

Hamburglar

Original post by z0tx

Put some glue inside, he'll be in for quite a surprise.

Suggestion of the year. :biggrin:

Reply 18

Lamptastic

Well it could be worse!

I would show it to him and let him know that it is ok. Or you could leave him be and let him enjoy himself? Hes probably just embarrassed, poor guy.