Hey, on my 20th birthday the other day I found out I was pregnant which was a shock because I was on the pill. Ive decided to keep the baby and my boyfriend said he would fully support me. He doesnt want to be a dad this young (hes turning 21 in Sept) but he said that its my decision and would be there for me no matter what. I feel selfish but I just cannot have an abortion. The though of it makes me sick to the gut, and I just know that Ill suffer terribly from it and regret it for the rest of my life.
My mum, nan and older sis think I should have an abortion. My mum is making my life hell! She keeps muttering really loud that Im not going to cope, she keeps calling me stupid, shes even hiding food from me, saying that I have to provide for myself as she cannot afford to buy food for us both (shes lying as before the pregnancy she didnt really complain although money was tight). She also keeps saying that my boyfriend isnt going to stick with me and that Im going to be a terrible parent and that my life is going to be ruined. Im trying to remain positive about the birth but she keeps putting me down, making me feel like s**t. My boyfriend is so supportive so and so are my friends... I just need to get away.
Im due to start my last year at uni in September and Im due to give birth in March. Ill be moving back to my student home which is 44 miles away (at least I get to be away from my mum). But Ill have to look for a house for me and my boyfriend back in my hometown around 4 weeks before the baby is born. I know things are going to be a struggle when the baby is born, but Im willing to do everything in my power to improve things and to be a good parent. My boyfriend currently works as a sales adviser in a shop so money wont be great... However, I have been doing research and know the government will help out.
I just really really need some advice from anyone.