Hi, I started a thread before I even realised this existed.
I have an EDNOS, basically, since giving birth I am just getting back down to a 'normal' weight on the BMI scale but I definitely show signs of an eating disorder - constant calorie counting, restritcing calories, b/p'ing, nervousness and panic around food etc.etc. you all know the score.
I'm not quite sure when it all really started, but I do remember up until say, third year? in school I got teased for being 'fat', and one day I just decided I wouldn't eat lunch or x, y and z either. In next to no time, around 3 months I believe, I had fallen from a UK size 14 to a UK size 8 and I was really happy. That seemed to be the end of my calorie counting and restricting days, but every so often I would revert back to it for a week or so but I kepy my weight almost steady and I never once thought of these relapses as 'strange'. I honestly believe it to be normal, that everyone obsessed over their weight, counted calories religiously, restricted etc.etc.
Now in 2009 I fell pregnant, I found out in November, and I can honestly say for the first time in my life I didn't care about food or calories. I just ate and was happy, my baby needed me to eat and I wanted him to have the best start - so I did. I suppose in a way I was also 'making up' for all those bad habits before because in the end I put on near 60lbs I suppose!
After the birth of my son I still didn't care, I was breastfeeding and he needed me to eat for him to eat. It was bliss, for the first time ever I could eat what I wanted, when I wanted. No questions, no little voices in my head, nothing!
But it all came to a half in May this year and I relapsed for a while. Through severe calorie restritcing and counting, as well as exercise, I managed to loose just shy of 14lbs/1 stone in 3 weeks. After that I sort of got better and managed to loose a good bit further through healthy eating, proper calorie intake vs outake and exercise (I needed to loose the baby weight). However, on the 13th of this month I went on an all inclusive holiday for one week and when I came back I was 3lbs heavier than when I left (mostly because all the fizzy juice, alcohol and the fact I ate white carbs, instead of wholegrain/wheat ones). It is now 8 days since my return, 6 days since my relapse and I am back to such serious calorie counting and restricing I am barely eating over 800kcal a day and I now weigh 3lbs LESS than my preholiday weight, so 6lbs less than what I was last Saturday. That's 1lbs loss per day since this started :'(
The worst part is, that although I hate this disease, the way it controls me, I'm happy. I'm happy I can control something in my life always, I'm happy seeing the numbers go down and today I was ecstatic in the shops having went down a dress size. All the while thinking to myself if I keep restricting/restrict more, then I can get even smaller.
I just want to be healthy, to eat what I want when I want. Not to look at every label, to overestimate my food kcals so I know I'm not going over, to enjoy the hunger pains I get. I don't want my son to pick up on my bad habits when he is older, to think this is 'normal' or even worse, start doing it himself. I would loathe myself even more than I already do if I hurt him through this.
Gah.