It is so bloody hard to talk to her about it. I know what i want to say but my words are off little comfort. particularly as she was only 2 weeks behind me. When my baby is born, she will be god mother but i cant help but feel terrible. my best friend has cancer and 2 children. because its a lymphoma they need to wait for it to devlop to effectively treat. this was her last chance, shes now found new growths in the lympth nodes and i think this is what we have been waiting for. Biopsys, appointments at QE Hosp in Birmingham