I don't like guys who like slutty looking girls, shallow?

Sounds like you're jealous these girls get more attention than you.

It's ok, making an anonymous post on an internet forum will make him change his preferences.

maybe if you stopped being so high and mighty and stopped judging everyone in this situation you'd have a boyfriend

I'm not looking for a boyfriend, i'm taking a break from dating if i'm being honest.

I was waiting for that. Thanks, but no. I get enough attention as it is. I'm always getting compliments on my looks and body. I have nothing to be jealous of.

Funny you say that, I don't want him to change his preferance, I don't like him because of his preferance, he keeps asking me out and yes i like guys with standard

maybe if you stopped being so high and mighty and stopped judging everyone in this situation you'd have a boyfriend

I'm not looking for a boyfriend, i'm taking a break from dating if i'm being honest.

dude whats your problem?



@ op - i know what you mean, i dated my ex knowing i wasnt his usual type - he usually went for the skanks and mini skirted bimbo variety who had all kinds of threesomes. meanwhile i am a classily dressed, professional, with decent values and no sex before marriage. he dated me for a year, often saying how i want his usual type, and eventually cheated on me then dumped me for somene who was. a leaopard cant change his spots.

also if a dude is sleeping with a bunch of sluts, that makes him one too.

my problem is that i don't like people feeling they are better than others just because they are different. i also don't like girls judging other girls who are "slutty" (i don't like using that word) because it's none of their business and there is absolutely nothing wrong with a girl sleeping around if that's what she wants. OP claims to agree with this but then goes on to tell us about her negative judgement.

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*sad face at use of 'slutty'*

I don't judge someone by what they find attractive. I judge them by how they are with me and how they treat others. Sometimes being the exception to the rule is a great thing, and if I really like someone and find them to be engaging, intelligent and fun, I'm not going to be put off them simply because I'm not their normal type.

wow you sound lovely, why do you think you're a higher standard of woman? just because you are different with your actions and choice of clothes does not mean you are a better standard than these women.

i think her point was, if those girls wanna let it all hang out and sleep with a bunch of dudes every night, thats cool for them and entirely their choice.
but if a guy specifically targets these girls who are scantily clad and well up for it, knowing he will get banged within a few hours of meeting, should she date him?

i say no because she has different expectations of the relationship to him

Are you looking for gay guys then? because any straight guy likes to look at scantily clad fit girls......

Thanks, this is exactly what i mean.

It clearly paints a mental image of what type of guys he is.

Nothing wrong with looking, but pursuing only them is different.

Thanks, this is exactly what i mean.

It clearly paints a mental image of what type of guys he is.