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You're a Newcastle uni student... It's practically sacrilege not to drink, even if you are on your own!

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haha, I've pretty much demolished my rum, might start on the wine in the fridge soon.

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About casual sex with strangers? I'm struggling to think of anything that isn't tacky about it.

I'm saving myself for tomorrow night. There's a conference on during the day in Percy Building that my mate is helping out with, so we're going out with a few of the lecturers for food and drinks after. Then probably going off for more drinks with some other mates. It has been too long since I've visited the cage in Sinners, and the trebles of Gotham Town - They are calling me back. :P

This but I would so get done by Hugo or Spencer

watching chicago following a pretty much entire day of whistling Roxie, just to get it out of my system.

That's rather judgemental. I could just as easily say that you don't know how to have fun, but I wouldn't, because that would make me an arse.

Whad'ya all think of websites like gaydar for making friends in the area? I mean, I had a browse through gaydargirls and found that there was huuuuundreds of les's that I didn't know existed. But I'm a bit apprehensive about making a profile... Hmmm I'm bored of having only straight friends.

watching chicago following a pretty much entire day of whistling Roxie, just to get it out of my system.

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And although I was going to get an early night and go to bed.. I now have to put chicago on lol thanks

Of course it's ****ing judgemental. It's living up to an utterly crass and frankly disgusting stereotype that I feel dirty being tarred with. People that whore it about with random strangers, gay or straight, make me so angry. Don't they have any pride in themselves, or is three minutes of carnal pleasure too much temptation? It's people like this that cause strangers to automatically assume that I'm some sort of tacky tramp that can't keep it in my pants, simply because I'm gay when it couldn't be further from the truth.

You know me, Jace - I'm normally quite reserved and level-headed, but nothing annoys me more than people with no morals and no self respect - people that lie, cheat and are only in it for themselves, and it makes me very cross.

Now listening to the soundtrack of Chicago now. I personally prefer the movie to the theatre version (and that's very rare)

Of course it's ****ing judgemental. It's living up to an utterly crass and frankly disgusting stereotype that I feel dirty being tarred with. People that whore it about with random strangers, gay or straight, make me so angry. Don't they have any pride in themselves, or is three minutes of carnal pleasure too much temptation? It's people like this that cause strangers to automatically assume that I'm some sort of tacky tramp that can't keep it in my pants, simply because I'm gay when it couldn't be further from the truth.

You know me, Jace - I'm normally quite reserved and level-headed, but nothing annoys me more than people with no morals and no self respect - people that lie, cheat and are only in it for themselves, and it makes me very cross.

I don't think enjoyment of sex necessarily indicates a lack of morals or self-respect or pride. If someone lies or cheats to get someone to have sex with them, then fair enough, that's not on. Two (or more!) people making the mutually consensual decision to do something that they both enjoy and that makes them both feel good, even though they're not interested in forming an emotional bond? I'm fine with that.

But then I think in general, people make too big a deal out of sex. It's not a bond, a contract, a duty. It's not a declaration of love or a sacrifice. It's body parts rubbing together that produces physical pleasure (and sometimes children).

YMMV, I suppose.